So what do you do when you like a friend who likes someone else? The correct answer, you leave them be. Even though your heart bleeds and you cry yourself to sleep every night. The correct thing to do is to be happy for him and to encourage him to pursue her, especially when she appears to like him too. But what if it’s just too hard? What if you find yourself thinking about him every single day. You cry and you cry and you ask why, God why? What do you do then? Do you put on a brave face or do you crumble to pieces? I have tried to be a good friend, to be happy for him. But every time he comes to me with happy stories about her, every time they have a date is like a knife in my heart. And don’t think I’m pathetic, pining over a guy like that, my life is more than that. It just seems like it isn’t these days. Things I used to care about mean nothing anymore and all I really want is for it all to stop, one way or another. None of my friends seem to understand, all they do is give good for nothing advice. Since I turned nineteen I think about ending my life almost every day. I just wish that there was someone out there that was willing to listen, to care.
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I can TOTALLY relate to this story! —GOD IS SO GOOD— had to give Him His credit tonight, because every post that I have read tonight has been such a story that I can relate to.
No need to go into all the details, but let’s just say I totally FEEL YOU!
You need someone to care? You already have Jesus ;).
But if you need a human’s touch, I am here for you! Contact me!
You are articulate and use proper grammar…don’t kill yourself. There is so much more for you in the future. Perhaps more heartache, yes, but you seem more apt to deal with it and share your experiences than most.
i am willing to listen, just send me an email and we’ll talk. I check them daily, so dont hesitate.
silly.snowball@yahoo.com
You are special and unique and loved by a lot of people. You have made a connection with the members of this site and now owe it to us all, and yourself, to LIVE. You may not always be happy (who is?) but if you take life minute by minute, pretty soon you’ll be able to go hour to hour, then day to day, week to week, etc. And as you progress you will notice that your sadness will lessen and contentment will replace it. That will give way to happiness. In order to be truly happy in life, you have to be able to find joy and fulfillment within yourself. It isn’t easy but it is incredibly rewarding and worth the effort.
Please stay among the living and contact me ANYTIME you need someone to just “be there” for you. I am a great listener and want to do what I can to encourage you to make the decision to seek your happiness. If you contact me through this site, I will give you my phone numbers. Nothing reassures the tortured soul like the sound of a caring and understanding voice.
Bless You.
If anyone wants someone to talk to, you can talk to me.
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/#/JenniferUnearthed?ref=profile
email: stolenname123@yahoo.com
im willing to listen and not just that , but to actually help .
i promise you that i would do anything in my hands to help you escape from the darkness .
Please CONTACT me . you wont regret it . im not here to make it worse but to actually make it better .
Hope you take what i said in consideration .
peralta.katherine@hotmail.com
I think every teenage girl, even women, have felt something for someone who didn’t want them in retun. It’s hard to watch the person you care about talk about his love life with another person. I learned through experience that there are 2 solutions to this (maybe more but that’s all i know): either be a good friend to him and eventually you will meet someone too or tell him how you feel, because maybe he has feelings for you too, but be careful because it could ruin your friendship. Either way, it’s difficult.