Well I think its time to tell people why I cut and why I think I’m depressed.
It starts off like all the rest, happy family, with money, love ect..
When I was about four years of age I was working in the farm with my daddy and my sixteen year old cousin, my dad left to get some food for the cattle, I was sitting on a lump of hay. My cousin comes up to me and starts fingering me. It was not a good experience for me and I couldn’t get him to stop. I think he would have gone a lot further if my daddy hadn’t came. But dad said nothing, did nothing, I thought fathers were supposed to protect us?
Well two years passed and I had kinda gotten over the abuse. My grandmother had gone away for 3weeks of the summer to visit her brother in another country. Well let’s just say my grandfather wasn’t too happy. He got her wardrobe and he brought it to the pier and set her stuff on fire. I just started screaming your a monster. When my gran came back from holidays she was quite pissed off about the clothes and started giving off to my granddad. He went to the kitchen and got a knife, he chased her up the stairs. She crouched behind my six year old body, terror in her eyes. And all he could do was laugh.
So another 3 years passed, I was about nine, my uncle had moved to England, he was gone 2years now. He had given my aunt the house to live in while he was gone. He decided to move back home, no one knew he was coming it was a surprise. He arrived at his house. The place was a mess as there was a party the night before. He also took out a knife and went crazy, no one was hurt. Like father like son, eh?
Then I turned 10, my cousin, (she was about 15) Sheila had come to live with us for three months of the summer. I was so happy 🙂 towards the end of the summer I noticed Sheila had changed tremendously, she wasn’t really happy anymore. One night we set a tent up in my bedroom and slept in it. I asked her what was up. She told me that my grandfather(crazy one) had sexually abused her. I didn’t know what to say so I just hugged her while she wept in my arms.
I was 12 it was around february in the last year before high school. Sheila, my cousin had just died in a car crash. She had been celebrating her brothers birthday and some drunk driver crashed into her. I started acting out in class, grades dropped. This made my mother very angry. I got a note send home from school twice. My mother went crazy. She beat me with a steel stick until I fell to the floor, when I was on the floor she kicked me until I passed out.
About 15 now, life is great I have good friends, even a best friend. But then I put up my barriers. Trust issues acting up. They know too much. Not good, why can’t I stop telling them my life story. I ignore them, kick them out of my life.
Back to present now I’m almost 17, I have one person who knows I self harm, who knows everything and two people who think I have stopped.
Thanks if youu have read this far <3 youu may think its too dramatic to be true, heck I think it is. But its my life.
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I’m truly sorry those things happeed to you
That’s okay <3 youu didn't do anything to me.
I do that-trust people then panic cuz I feel they know too much. Mostly because they always walk out on me. Ignore me or just dissapear. I wish I could truely trust someone but I give up on that.
People can be terrible. I’ll probly go crazy like that. I’m only 16 but I can feel it coming on. I’ll probly go insane and scare/hurt someone. I have always known I was born to be a mom but I’m gonna need someone that can keep me sane if I’m going to have kids :/ I’ll go crazy someday. Probly not far from now 😛 I don’t like hurting people tho
I’m 17 on thursday. Its hard to trust people when they don’t give youu and reason to trust them. People don’t disappear or ignore me, I’m stupid and I push them away once they get to know the real me <3
You said I will probably go crazy like that? What do youu mean?
idk 😛 just break down probly fall to my knees, scream and chase someone with a knife >.< k now that I say that it doesn't sound like me at all. but I am close to breaking down. I kinda cracked yesterday, covered my ears and screamed at my brother to leave me alone and not touch me (in public… -.-)
Ohh :/ that’s not good. Why are you breaking down?
http://suicideproject.org/2012/07/cracked/
Oh yea I read that already 😛
Well I gotta go my brother wants to get on…. I gotta do my chore anyways. Probly be back when he goes out to play. Byeeee 😛
Oh okay. Goodbyee <3
100 and something views and 2 people commented <3 thanks guys on this.. Really helpful..
I’m back…. 🙂 ….sorry….
Oh that’s okay…..
you sure you’re ok? it can take a lot to share stuff like that and it can be kinda hard when nobody says anything cuz then you’re left wondering what they are thinking… and feeling a little ignored :/
Nope I’m not okay.. No its just maybe my story isn’t bad? Maybe I’m just acting like a spoiled brat.
no you’re not.
Oh well thank youu
WOW, you are such a brave person. I can’t believe the horrific events you’ve had in your life time. Goodness, and the most amazing thing is that you’re still moving on with life as you should, because you could have a huge impact on someone’s life someday with this story! Thank you for being this brave. *CLAPS* 😀 xxxx <3
If I were ur friend from day one I woulda stuck up for u the whole time I hate to see girls be treated like that. I’m only a couple yrs older then u but I haven’t been thru all that stuff u have but I’ve been around the block a lot already. If u ever want to talk have questions or just want a good laugh u can email me nrspuzz@sbcglobal.net =)
Thank you<3 that made me smile @with-pure-angles 🙂
Thank you @kindalostkid <3
i dont even want to start thinking what i would do to your male cousin… and as for your dad… all i can say is sorry. i know in my heart if you were of my seed, and someone, anyone did something to upset you… harm you, scar you…. lets just recite these old lyrics/”The cause of death is unknown to the copsCause when I kill them, I’m not leavin one element to autopseFirst I’ll assasinate emAnd them I’ll cremate themAnd take all of his fucking ashes and evaporate em”
That’s okayy <\3