How can he say he loves me so much he wants to marry me one moment, then the next moment he’s pushing me around, punching me in the nose, telling me to kill myself, telling me that I’m a worthless, heinous ***** who isn’t worth marrying, and that all of his friends hate me the next moment
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Don’t give up hope. When you can get a chance, dump that loser boyfriend and move on, because there are a lot better people out there. You are still young and have a lot going for you. I felt like giving up when I was younger and at the time I thought that I had every reason to. But I didn’t and I am glad that I didn’t just because of relatively few people. There are better people out there. You can find them and move on. Hope this helps 🙂
I think the better question is:
Why is the first moment still relevant, after the occurrence of the second? It shouldn’t be.
Abusers like that do not change. You really want to sign up for a life of torture? Do you think that if you leave you’ll be alone and never be happy? I highly doubt you’ll be unhappy if you leave considering what you’re going through now.
I don’t know the whole situation…. but there appears to be a disconnect here…
Marriage does not mesh with physical and mental abuse. If there is abuse, you don’t need to be a part of this situation. Statistically, the abuse seems to get worse and not better.
who cares. get away from this guy. this dude is loopy and you got to break off this relationship. no love is worth abusing yourself.