Adultery is the case that a commitment broken.
Those who not married but cheated with real actions or just flirtings, the substantial commitment bonded isÂ violated there.
And by law in most countries, people are free to engage in sex as long as they are not married and within the law abiding.
So the law seems to agree that lies are permitted to those people even sex is related.
Then why marriage is to be set being so sacred ? Some religious people even bind words of “till death do us apart”. Do we really have to die ?
Isn’t that only to bind the sharing responsibility of children and wealth among the couple ?
If really want to bind that sacredly, may be better first be a Catholic.
But then by law, divorce is so easy afterwards, the Catholic church just can’t do a thing about it.
Oh, there’s so much conflict out there in this world, with just marriage alone.
Sex is said to be sacred between the married couple, to bring prosperous beautiful children. A poet may write on that.
Sex is also thought to be beautiful with love between 2 unmarried couple. Love stories and movies promoted it.
There are also people here with platonic passion, or always trying to stay pure by driving away sex thoughts in order to get a sacred relationship. However, one of the partner may at the end find an excuse or a sex-partner and drop words like “sorry, you’re not my type”.
The ten commandments include adultery as a sin, has its big reason.
Buddhist also has a big law about sex too.
Sex can bring great passion but also grief.
You can’t do without it, but you can’t just have it without grief that follows.
The hormones in men and women are always doing the trick.
Friends that hate each other, lovers wanted to kill, children wanted to die too.
What a world ?
I see love, but I see more hate.
Seems like the only love one can fully and safely and better bring is to himself. Fullstop.