The pleasures derived from our five senses (eye, ear, mouth, nose, and touch) are apparently known.
But 2 senses are always co-related and found culprited with.
Sex and Food.
The lacking in one’s certain expectations may drive one to emphasize attention on food or sex.
That’s the most tempting desires one would focus on.
One may eat nothing at all or consume a lot.
Or disgusted of sex or thinking uncontrollably full of lust.
As human, being material, these two undeniable material desires are contributing great influence to the body and to also the soul.
Of these animal characteristics that we can’t live without, are in order for us to survive, and to strive.
Then what makes the human standing out from the animals, is our capability of learning that able to control it.
Yes. LEARN.
We’re bombarded by the drive of sex during puberty, it’s then the prime time we start to learn but all that come in a sudden.
The innocence and genuineness become fading out and come instead is the mind to possess.
Boy will learn how to gain.
In knowing that the more of his acting on impulse, the more that he’ll gain.
Girl will learn how to be gained as to gain.
The more of her act in laying back preparing, the more of men coming by.
But the choices of selection are few in near surroundings.
There the left behinds are only being treated as undesirable.
The remaining bunch then further their acts to the extreme.
Boys will be more violent in reacting to their impulses, as gangsters-like to rape or recluses-like to masturbate.
And the girls retreat farther and become the haters of men or the recluses in silence.
Feelings of sex desire is never a sin, but blessing us as the higher beings in animal kingdom.
Some even dream of sex with parents, or siblings, or animals, or homos, or children or any.
I can tell you that this thinking is normal, especially in men with excessive testosterone, the hormone to gain.
It’s only abnormal if one doesn’t learn to control it, direct it, or medicate it.
The time you can succeed in this control, can one be entitled as being an upright human.
A knife is a tool, very useful indeed, but if it’s been used in a horrified killing, the shadow of guilt then imposed.
The knife is not horrible, but the memory induced behind that flashing up is.
Be understanding !
To understand the causes behind, then face it.
Then there will be no fear, when you are in control of realizing their ignorance.
So you can then forgive, it’s just animal behaviour in all human.
Sex is never a sin to begin with.
It’s only a sin to carry the guilt.
Religious people choose to abstain from sex, so to follow through their quest spiritually.
But it’s not right to suppress what’s lying underneath their natural need.
When the level of desire wanting to copulate arises to a point that would impede one’s normal discerning, masturbation should be a way to release the material need and thinking, and that not to be damned as unorthodox.
If the animal characteristic of a human is to be denied and damned, then so will one’s mind and be in own’s curse too.
As a human, we are to learn to differentiate and be able to discern of the importance of one’s soul through conscientiously experiencing with our material body.
Not until you fully realize the enthralling effect of a material body can bring in pleasure and pain, will it be ever up to compare with what your soul shall demand and expect !