I don’t know what to do anymore… I have been dating the same girl for the past five years on and off… I cheated on her twice being dumb… After I realized what I had she had already started dating my best friend to get me back… They lasted about a month and then she came back to me and the relationship went on… Over the next couple years we were planning to move out and get married and start new lives together… Recently she started treating me real bad giving me an attitude all the time when I would call her to see how her day went or just to tell her shes beautiful… This past friday we had sex and monday too… Both times were unpr otected and you know… Last night I came home from work and I drove past her house and I noticed a car in her driveway that didn’t belong there… It was about 12am… So I went to her house… No answer… Called the phones… No answer… I knew something was up she wouldn’t even look at me at all… She came downstairs with another guy and told me she was calling the police… So I left… He ended up spending the night there… The cops came to my house and told me I can’t contact her and I don’t even know what went wrong… This girl is my life… She was the only person to catch me when I would fall… She was there for me when I had no one to turn too… When my family turned their backs against me and started saying all kinds of things… I just feel I have nothing left to live for… I recently got let go from my job of 4 years… Can’t find work anywhere… My family hates me… I’m not able to contact her because I’ll get arrested… I just can’t do this anymore I want the pain to go away… She just told me that afternoon that she loved me… I’ve just got nothing to live for now…
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Even if you can’t see anything worth living for now, you will in the future.
How old are you
23… I can’t do anything I’m so depressed… Their just rubbing it in my face… My girlfriend was 23 and shes not seeing a 19 year old after dating me for 5+ years… I just want the pain to go away.
I just don’t know what to do anymore… I have no one to talk too… I can’t help but hide in my room because I’m so embarrassed of my life… I have not ate in two days… ugh
contrast her with another women you may meet in the future, think of the greater and stronger love you will have when u notice that while your with a better one she serves you better, search, move around the country
I will try to sound as supportive as possible here…..bros. you’re 23…I strongly recommend looking for perspective on your situation. I cheated on girls….I did all sorts of stuff that warrants embarrassment and if you feel bad, that’s good….means you have a conscience so as to make better decisions in the future. You need to consider so many other people who are in dire situations and they fight for their lives-…you’re way stronger than this and you’re copping out…at 23, I didn’t know anything…I did my best, I thought I knew a lot but life has a time line for everyone and if you don’t allow yourself to take the hits you don’t learn how to navigate life and understand the bigger picture…it’s not all about you and what you’re going through….what I’m saying is relax…take it easy, breathe….literally, calm yourself. You need to be right with yourself before you can have a fulfilling relationship with a gal. Took me 15 yrs to learn that. Otherwise if you’re expecting someone to fulfill your needs thats what they call a co-dependent relationship-not healthy. You’re a good guy and you’re downing yourself…
You have the opportunity to do some growing up dude…and I mean that in the best sense….the growing up never stops for any of us. Good luck. Cheers!
i know how you feel.. 🙁
Its been 3 days without eating… Anytime I try I just throw it up… She claims shes not seeing him but from what he has said and what has been written it seems different… ugh I just dont know anymore