Everyday I wake up and wish that I hadn’t. I’ve felt this way since I was at least 15, I am now 27. I’m on anti depressants, but they don’t seem to help much. My family ignores more. My mother belittles everyone in our house and I often wonder how my father has stayed with her all these years. I’m scared that I will slowly turn into her and that thought is always with me. What if I wake up one day and am as mean and as hypocritical as her. It seems like everything I do is wrong and I can’t take it much longer. I thought by now I would have my own place to live and a great job and maybe a boyfriend who loved me. Instead I am still living with my parents, struggling to find a job even with my college degree (what a waste!), I’ve never had anyone, not ever a friend who gave a real dam about me. It always seemed like it was all about them. I had to be their therapists and make them feel good when I feel so miserable inside. I have tried to be more positive, but I just can’t. So instead I sit here writing this blog, hoping that just one person is listening and that maybe someone understands. I hate feeling this way, constantly numb inside, worthless, stupid, ugly, fat, useless. The worst part is that no one even really notices or asks me how I am. I’m tired of wearing a fake smile on my face when all I want to do is cry, but even the tears won’t come, that is how numb and empty I feel. I am just a waste of space that maybe soon won’t be here anymore!
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you are not a waste of space at all … you are creative and intelligent enough to write down all your feelings so well .. that takes guts and skill .. well done to you …
I know what you are saying. But you can meet people who will be genuine friends to you. Don’t worry about turning into your mom; just be the best person you can. You will find people who care about you. We care about you here.
At least you still have a place to live in, everyone will find their true freinds eventually, u have only lived around a quarter of your life, there is still so much more. fear of becoming your mother? as long you do what you beleive is right ull be fine, even if you ended up beleiving being your mother was correct or not. My family did not even have a place to live in, you are very fortunete to even live in a hose with a family. Dont give up just yet, keep fighting, who knows? tomorrow you could win a lottery or find your boyfreind, why today? why not in 2? why not in 3 weeks? give yourself time and do what you beleive is right
Guessing from your worries about your mom that you are in no way going to turn out like her. I doubt she even knows just exactly how she’s being. But you know, so you aren’t gunna do it.
You seem pretty sincere and caring, or else you wouldn’t even have friends always telling you there issues. They obviously trust you. All you have to do is just tell them. Don’t even bother being like ‘ok you guys always talk about your shit but I never tell you about mine and you always expect me to be there for you even if I’m feeling like crap.’ Just start talking. Interrupt them even, if you’re on this site then screw manners. Just get together with your friend and start venting all of this stuff that you’ve been feeling. If they don’t want to listen of they actually complain then fuck them because they’re self centered jerks. Find another friend to talk to.
Just start talking. Babble like a crazy person if it’s necessary.
i know how u feel only it started when i was 7 im now 14.