No offense to people who still believe in it… but anyone besides me think that’s bull?
I’ve honestly been a hardcore advocate of true love and the strong ties between friends. Through many years, I realize this is bull. There is no such thing as true love and true friendship. They’ll all backstab you once they’re done with you. I can honestly say that I’ve always truly gave my love to someone before and did everything a good friend should and always been there for both but have never truly felt anyone do the same for me. Not once. I mean I’ve felt it like maybe during the small amount of time they’re with me, but then shortly after they show their true fake faces and don’t care shit about me. Turning their backs to me or just end up betraying and backstabbing me. Anyone feel the same thing or have this happening in their lives? or is this just me?
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I agree screw friends and love it all hurts in the end
Yeah.. they all end up only caring about themselves. I’m sure there are people who aren’t like that… maybe like 200 out of the billions out there. Good luck finding the 200 though.
Everyone just ditches you in the end i always have that happen to me
Same here, even the ones that I have fully trusted and believed in or have known for years and years. I’m too stupid to learn my lesson the first time and just kept on having the same thing happen over again though.
This is why I don’t have any friends, and i don’t try to make any new friends, I have a special person in my life and he is all I need, and want. If things go sour with him, then I give up on everybody and its best if I live alone, then to have my heart broken for the 3rd major time.
Thats probably why i dont really have any friends either and i just dont bother anymore plus its hard when you have issues like depression and anxiety
@not-good-enough: It’s good to have someone, just don’t let that person be your everything. I had someone who said I was her everything and then I made her my everything, just to see her coldly leave me after she was done. It’ll make your heart die completely. It’s worse if you already have depression and stuff too.
@crying on the inside: Yeah, it’s hard to talk to people normally when you have those. Even if you try to mask it, it doesn’t really help.
So much focus is always on how we look for bestfriends/lovers in life, but seldom do we prioritize polishing ourselves to be that bestfriend/lover. So yes, you’re right in this way: All of us are too busy complaining about how others are not good enough, and nobody’s going to put effort into becoming that bestfriend/lover – which is why true friendship/love doesn’t seem to exist practically on this earth.
But I still believe it exists, even if people don’t display it. It is not an impossibility.
The law of attraction rules from my experience. You have love for yourself, you attract it from others. It just shows up when we’re not expecting it. There’s too much gunk in movies and media about how relationships are and they aren’t a real reflection. May seem strange but you need to cultivate all the traits you want in someone else before you’ll attract the person.
We’re all needing to learn how to love ourselves, we’re the constant in our own lives and not seek love/acceptance/ or approval from outside sources. When you’re true with you, then a real relationship can happen based on a solid foundation. Cheers!