I’m old, at least I feel old compared to other entries I have read. Over 40, but my life has been empty since I was 16, I was ignored and neglected by my family. My mother died just before I turned 24, leaving me to try and raise a 9 year old half-sister whose father was an abusive alcoholic who used to beat me, threatened my life and even and threw glass liquor bottles at me. Though I was trying to protect her from that, she hated me for it, and wanted to live with her daddy. She got her wish when she turned 12, the last time I saw her was our grandfather’s funereal in 1997. After that my health declined, diabetes, not the usual kind, I wasn’t overweight or anything but it snuck up on me, never knew anything was wrong until the nerve damage started. Now here I am at 42, no friends, no family, no future and I can’t justify just waiting around to die anyway when I am so alone and so lonely. The only thing stopping me is my fear of death itself, and that is slowly losing out to the pointlessness of staying around and desire for it all to just be over and done with.
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I’m sorry to hear about all of your pain, and I hope that things get better for you. If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to email me at blusapphire1989 at yahoo dot com.
It is sad to hear the pain of someone who tried to protect someone else and was abused and unappreciated for it.
Then life throws disease at you on top of it.
Hopefully one of your paths can bring you a measure a peace and freedom from pain.
nice to meet you
Hi. I’m over 40 too, and have been depressed all my life also. Pretty sure a lot has to do with neglect etc in my childhood. Neglected kids just can’t turn into adults who connect with other people. Makes me so mad.
Anyway, I just wanted to say hi, from one depressed over-40 person to another. Take care.
Hey, I have tomorrow off work and theres some good racing on. If I win a substantial amount I will take you out and we can get sozzled on fine champagne and hit the town. Anyway, my point is, no one knows what’s around the corner. Anything can happen really. Dream the impossible.
I read your post again. We’ve both lived with this a long time. “No friends, no family, no future”, perfectly describes me too. Somebody out there gets you.
You could try eating marmalade sandwiches. Works for me.
Denise, I can take you out too 😉
I thought life began at 40.
Age is just a number. Do remember then the said Moscow Flyer was too old to win the champion chase. Did he listen? No! He cam back at the age of 11 to become champion again.
I just wanted to thank everyone for their kindness and replies. It does help some to know I am not alone in feeling the way I do. Though I am by no means doing great, but perhaps a little better than when I posted that.
Hey Scimax,
I missed your post. Haven’t been around too much the last couple of days. Another old one here myself. 50…ayup …the “F” word. Would like to know more of your story if you wouldn’t mind. I myself have been diagnosed with 8 different auto-immune disorders….but currently only dealing with a few….imo….dis”ease”…can actually be a physical manifestation of an emotional dis”ease”. What do you think?
Have you been diagnosed with any other dis”eases”?
Namaste
Amakua