im sick and tired of people calling me ugly, or saying i look like a dude, or have a “boyish face” I’m sick of people saying “I’d pick ____ over morgan any day”
becuz when i look in the mirror. I’m happy with what i see, i feel beautiful. and in my mind i think i am. even tho i get called ugly at least once a week.
i just don’t get how not many other people can see that I’m beautiful like how i see myself.
i have been texting my friend (he’s a guy) for the past week. and today he told me “i like making fun of you becuz you don’t get offended” and my reply was. “its because I’m use to it”, but now that i think about it. its kind of sad in a way..
I’m just waiting for the day someone comes along and finds me way more beautiful then any other girl… but since i get called “ugly” or “not as attractive as____” I’m not seeing that day arriving soon…
i think I’m beautiful, so why can’t others?
-Morgan
ps: if i keep being called ugly… i think i might start to believe it..i kinda already am.
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Fuck those peeps
@deadinside
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The guy that texts you and says he likes to make fun of you because you don’t get offended sounds like a jerk, Morgan. He shouldn’t be making fun of you at all. No one should. But people are mean. Honestly, they don’t know what the hell they’re talking about. If you see yourself as beautiful, that’s all that matters. Maybe there’s someone in your school that thinks you’re beautiful but is too shy to say anything.
Please don’t listen to those creeps that call you ugly. I know what you mean when you say that the more you hear something you start to believe it.
Did it ever occur to you that maybe these people could be jealous of you? It happens. They get insecure and they start calling you ugly to make themselves feel better. If anyone’s sad… it’s them.
@thegoodgirl
thank you, and yes today he is being a very big jerk. and maybe someone does.. i just hope they’d say something. and i wouldn’t think anyones jealous of me.. they all seem to have better lives than me..
Maybe you shouldn’t talk to him so much if he makes you feel that way. Or be honest with him about how it makes you feel when he makes fun of you.
They seem to have better lives than you, but that could be a cover-up. You may not know what their home life is like. Maybe they’re getting picked on at home or somewhere else. So they have low self-esteem and take it out on you to make themselves feel better. It may not seem like it, but some of these kids could be jealous of you. It’s a possibility.
yah i guess maybe i should be honest. and maybe.
I dunno about the friend. I remember back in school me and my friends, all we seemed to do was make fun of each other from the first bell when school started until the last bell of the day lol. Like we had an unwritten rule that we couldn’t say anything nice about each other. Thats just kind of how guys are at that age I think. Or maybe any age for that matter. You gotta have thick skin when you are out with the guys. On the other hand I always knew they were kidding so it really never did bother me. Maybe he actually likes you and that is the only way he knows how to show it. Even on a site like this you get people teasing their friends about stuff…I seem to remember something about concrete cookies and Betty Crocker not to long ago lol
As for the rest of them I would really like to say who cares what they think…but honestly we all care what everyone else thinks about us, you just have to try to remember that what you think is more important, even though its really hard to keep that perspective.
@whatamidoinghere
😀 yah me and my friends do that too, but of corse we’re joking as well.
and maybe he does.. i doubt it tho
@What, Hm, about having a thick skin around the guys. True. But shouldn’t they treat Morgan like a lady?? He could like her. Or he could be a jerk. I’d go with jerk, but that’s me.
We do rag on eachother on here, but it’s all in good fun. No harm intended. And if someone’s feelings are hurt we apologize.
Well I don’t think he meant to be a jerk though, since he said he only likes to make fun of her because she doesn’t get offended. So I don’t think he intended it to be hurtful in any way. Or maybe he said that to make sure it really wasn’t bothering her, to give her a chance to respond with “well you know it really does kind of bother me sometimes” Well sure they should treat Morgan like a lady but when have we guys ever been known for our maturity lol, but yea if it does bother her she should probably say something about it.
woops sorry didn’t see you had responded to Morgan, came back and had only seen GGs comment. I think everyone jokes around with their friends like that but if its to much or to often it can be a problem. you should let him know if it bothers you. Why do you doubt he likes you, is there any reason why he wouldn’t?
hes also been comparing me to this other girl and saying how hotter she is than me.
I was about to say we also don’t know what he says to her, but she just said he tells her another girl is hotter… reinforces my jerk theory. lol. True, when are guys known for maturity. Definitely not at that age. Be honest though, if it hurts you Morgan.
yes i think i will 🙂
yea its not cool to make comparisons like that. Because honestly there is always someone better but that doesn’t mean it needs to be pointed out. Like I am sure he is no Johnny Depp or Justin Beaver or whoever it is you girls put up posters of these days.
haha i dislike justin bieber.
I’m more of a harry potter fan (78 posters go harry potter in my room) lol
lol 78 posters, and poor Harry Potter all the terrible things that happened to him, if he had been a real person I wonder if he would have ended up posting on this site 😀
haha yes.
lol Wow, 78 posters?! I like Harry Potter too. But no posters. :/ haha
@What, I love how you spelled his name Beaver. lmao.
haha 😀
harry potter? wherd that come from?
hah yea who doesn’t like Harry Potter, this world is way to boring it could use some magic. You know its one thing to have a ton of posters and say I have like 100 posters…quite another to know you have exactly 78 lol did you count them? hmm yea Bieber now I feel this strange impulse to go watch that youtube video of him getting hit in the face with a water bottle again.
Whoa whoa whoa, Justin Bieber got hit in the face with a water bottle? Do you have a link?? lol.
I agree, amazing to know you have exactly 78 posters of Harry. :p
actually I don’t even know if it was a water bottle www youtube com/watch?v=0e50vqY7Szo
people should throw things at him more often.
^^^^^^^That’s freakin hilarious
Hi Morgan
It’s late and I have work in a few hours so I have to go back to sleep.
If u knew who these people were that are saying this stuff about you I would knock them out.
@duke
Lol thank you 🙂
I meant if I knew
Lmao!! I love how they kept playing it over and over and then in slow mo. Too funny.
Awww Morgan 🙁 I’m sorry your friends treat you like that, I had the same kind of friendships in high school. I hung out with mainly guys and became like one of them. They’d say, ‘you’re not a girl…you’re a…um…you’re a tracy’ and I didn’t even know how much I believed it until I moved away from the whole situation and reinvented myself, wore the things I wanted to wear and looked how I wanted to look. Before that I even got a pick-up line that was, ‘I wasn’t sure about coming over to talk to you because I was SURE you were a bull dyke, but blah blah blah’. Now I’m, apparently, considered very pretty face wise and very sexy body wise and I only believe/feel it abot 20% of the time. I hope you don’t let people get away with that kind of talk anymore, you’re such a cool chick! AND you like Harry Potter? You’re Aweosme 🙂
I LOVE the fact that you can look in the mirror and see your true beautiful face staring back at you, please don’t let anyone rob you of that. If your face is even a fraction as beautiful as your personality is then you’re a knockout in my book.
Next time someone rips on you as a joke let them know it isn’t funny, if they act like you’re a wuss for not ‘taking it’ correct them and let them know you’re being smart and having self respect.
Words are insanely powerful, (and sadly the negative words linger more than the good ones do) here’s a short video about a quantum experiment Masaru Emoto did involving words affect on water crystals, considering we’re made mostly of water, it’s kind of interesting.
http://youtu.be/zpnlCo5APrE
It actually inspired me to write ‘thank you’ ‘I love you’ ‘be well’ ‘happiness’ ‘health’ and ‘peace’ on my water pitcher – I guess I should drink more water haha.
The more someone tells you you’re ugly, the more you will believe it and start telling yourself the same – then it’s a big perpetual cycle.
I hope you don’t fall into that, Raw – you’re already amazing, brilliant and beautiful so I hope you remind yourself of that as often as you can and shut down anyone who (even jokingly) steers you away from that simple truth.
@tracersaurus
Thank you 🙂 and yes I love Harry potter. Lol. If only that world was real. And lol thank you. I also like how I can look in the mirror and see that I’m beautiful. And I will watch the video after school and tell u what I think
Um, weird… that video repeats itself once for some reason but at the end of the second loop it shows closeups of Emoto’s results.
Ofcourse you are;)