Is age really a promblem?

I was devastated for a year after my first gf basically ended it. Or I ended it cause she didn’t care about the relationship. But I never thought of dying, which is interesting.

So at 41, I”ll share what I’ve learned. We don’t get hurt unless we’re in some way already vulnerable to getting hurt. People with strong self-esteem, and unconditional love for themselves take break ups in stride and take perspective on the whole situation.

So here you are having invested all your eggs in this one guy and now you think you want to die because of it. This may sound harsh, but as a guy I prefer to see any gal smiling, happy, and empowered.

Another choice you could make is that you’re worth more than the experience you had with this guy and your existence is worth far more than giving your power to a guy who you believe decides whether or not you live or die. You are the constant in your life and nothing else…remember that! So while you’re in your bed, cultivate and ponder creating love from with inside yourself! That’s real love. When you have it within you, you don’t need to seek it from someone else. Then when you come across a guy who is simpatico with you, it’s a more real, easy glowing, give and take relationship.

I wish someone told this to me at 16…you have way too much to be grateful for and if you crossed over, you would find out very quickly what your actions caused. You are not a candidate and way too smart to be following that process of thinking for yourself. Take care.