Sometimes when your with people you love, they make you think that when your with them you can keep living and you could go on with the pain and just think of them. But when your by yourself the truth is, that they’re not there to make you think that. They won’t be there all the time. It’s not worth just waiting to be with someone o be happy. If your happy your happy without people also, you don’t have to depend of them. Sometimes i think i could do it, then when i really start to think, the truth is that i can not live depending on people to make me happy…
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“truth is that i can not live depending on people to make me happy…”
You are 100% right. Your value and self worth must come first from yourself not your external environment but your internal one.
Otherwise you will be like a yo-yo (up & down) relying on others to give you happiness.
Imagine what that would be like. Friends are there ~ im happy. Friends are not there not happy. People cant function healthily like this.
Be at peace with yourself. Accept the past (mistakes and all), focus on now and your future. The past you cannot change. The Future you can.
Stay well
Ad Astra
I don’t expect others to provide me with happiness,but I know that loneliness is really bad.So I try to maintain social contacts and not to lose my friends.I do this despite the fact that it’s hard to socialize with other people when you are in a bad mood.
You cant always depend on people, but you cant do everything yourself either. There has to be a middle ground or else you are left feeling used and abused.
Interesting.
The people who supposedly ‘love’ me are one of the reasons I am tired of living.
Well a very small one but still….