I’m almost two months pregnant and my baby daddy wants nothing to do with me. I’ve gotten counseling and some kind of support. Yet I feel all lonely and angry at myself for letting this happen to me so I tend to cut myself a lot. It’s getting bad. I need help before I get even more stressed out and something happens to the baby. I feel like being fourteen and gong through this is so hard!
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It’s a bad situation.
It is a bad situation.
Hi Justinee… It can be hard… and it will probably get harder before it gets easier. When it does get easier, it’s all worth it. Don’t let anything sidetrack you… You can do this.
I’m not a very good conversationalist.
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Well… We can all agree that it’s a bad situation.
You should try writing, instead of cutting. If that doesn’t work try running, or wearing a rubber band, then snap it whenever you think of cutting. Hope that helps a little.
Hi Justinee, I’m Jamie.
I’m 14 also, but I’m not a mother yet. I also agree that what is happening is a very bad situation, considering your age mainly. You have a few more years of schooling ahead of you, and a baby on the way. Now if that isn’t challenging, I don’t know what is. Keep your head up girl. Things will get harder as the baby grows and you get older, but it will all be worth it. As for cutting, I wouldn’t do that…your child is inside of you and everything you do or consume effects the child. Just be careful. I’m sorry the child’s father wants nothing to do with you…just try and keep your head up.
-Jamie
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