I’m scared. I feel like I’m losing everyone. Like NO ONE loves me. I told my friend I do stuff for attention. Now she hates me. I feel like no one understands me. Am I the only one that wants someone to love me??? Someone please give me advice.. ):
I believe we all want to feel loved but we need to go about it the right way. No one wants to feel manipulated either, especially if the things your doing for that attention hurts you because, in effect, it hurts those that love you and then hurts them worse to know your just doing it for their attention. They are your friends, by definition they already care for you and so you should not have to do anything more than be yourself to receive their affection.
My advice pertaining to you and this friend is, if you think you may have done something where your friend may have felt deceived, apologize and then try to explain you did not mean to hurt them. If they are a good friend hopefully you can explain how you feel and why you do things for attention and they can give you good advice.
No we all want to be loved but we need to make sure we are emotionally healthy or we tend to attract people that will hurt us. The only one that can truly love you because He loved you enough to die for you and I is Jesus Christ. Has anyone ever told you about Jesus? I became a Christian at 8 yrs old. I knew ALOT ABOUT Him for years, but after the hell I’ve experienced in this life, I TRULY came to KNOW Him vs just ABOUT Him. He is my ONLY reason for living that makes ANY sense at all! Do you know what happens to you after you die? When we accept Christ as our personal Lord & Savior by faith in Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit resides in our spirit and we become One with Him. ONLY AFTER WE ACCEPT HIM BY FAITH ARE OUR EYES OPENED and THEN we come to know Him EXPERIENCIALLY and THEN it all makes sense. We actually are Spirits, with a soul, in a body. Our bodies are our “earthsuits”, and we when we die, we leave those behind and our souls live forever. If you don’t believe it, you don’t need to curse me, just don’t respond, but if you want to more, I will be glad to tell you more. Start with John 3:16 & Rom 3:23 and if you really want knowledge Read Romans Chapters 1 thru 8. Amazing stuff!
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I believe we all want to feel loved but we need to go about it the right way. No one wants to feel manipulated either, especially if the things your doing for that attention hurts you because, in effect, it hurts those that love you and then hurts them worse to know your just doing it for their attention. They are your friends, by definition they already care for you and so you should not have to do anything more than be yourself to receive their affection.
My advice pertaining to you and this friend is, if you think you may have done something where your friend may have felt deceived, apologize and then try to explain you did not mean to hurt them. If they are a good friend hopefully you can explain how you feel and why you do things for attention and they can give you good advice.
No we all want to be loved but we need to make sure we are emotionally healthy or we tend to attract people that will hurt us. The only one that can truly love you because He loved you enough to die for you and I is Jesus Christ. Has anyone ever told you about Jesus? I became a Christian at 8 yrs old. I knew ALOT ABOUT Him for years, but after the hell I’ve experienced in this life, I TRULY came to KNOW Him vs just ABOUT Him. He is my ONLY reason for living that makes ANY sense at all! Do you know what happens to you after you die? When we accept Christ as our personal Lord & Savior by faith in Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit resides in our spirit and we become One with Him. ONLY AFTER WE ACCEPT HIM BY FAITH ARE OUR EYES OPENED and THEN we come to know Him EXPERIENCIALLY and THEN it all makes sense. We actually are Spirits, with a soul, in a body. Our bodies are our “earthsuits”, and we when we die, we leave those behind and our souls live forever. If you don’t believe it, you don’t need to curse me, just don’t respond, but if you want to more, I will be glad to tell you more. Start with John 3:16 & Rom 3:23 and if you really want knowledge Read Romans Chapters 1 thru 8. Amazing stuff!