Hey….I was in the conversation last night about the guys calling you ugly. You are definitely NOT ugly! You tell those guys to go fuck themselves, but don’t listen to a word they say!
I agree with fallen 🙂 beautiful & pretty indeed! And screw those if they disagree, because they must be blind.
Though I can see how you “fake it” well.
lol thank you all <3
@Guardian-aw thats sweet but my parents actually tell me they are happy with the way i look cuz they know guys wont like me..so far they've been right iv been nothin but played.
ya im glad i did this..i actually got 152 views…i only expected maybe one or two views but ya it goes to show the people im around are just too damn judgmental….
First I wondered why you posted a pic and asked that question. Then I read you had been harrashed by some people the other day, and that may be why
Well, whatever they say they can’t really tell you wether you look good or bad! And actually: does it help that someone says you’re pretty if you are insecure about it yourself?
I’ll give you my token on looking good: it’s all in the mind of the spectator! You may say looks like this or looks like that as much as you want but in the end you’ll come short of what it really is; I sometimes say: this is where the beauty says wow.
One funny thing I have noticed myself, is that much of what can be called beautiful is open for change as I learn to see better. One may notice all kinds of different things and think them beautiful or cool; just look at art & music & so.
Then I’ll turn my question above the other way around: does it matter if someone thinks you are ugly if they ain’t worth it? If they just can’t see? IF they just don’t get it?
And, dunno if you can use it for something, but as one of my friends have said somewhere: “Some call those imperfections – but really: that is the good stuff.” 😉
@kato-i know its jacked up but i make sure i look good for others and for me..but im not my judge the world is my judge. i care what others think even if they aint worth it. it shows me my flaws and i fix them to prevent being harrassed again. i am obsessive of my appearance but its cuz im harrassed constantly cuz of it. to me its only made me slightly stronger. i occasionally gained a more better self-esteem through it too.
I think there is indeed somethin’ you can take from Kato’s post…(I liked it at least). It’s important how YOU see yourself, not how others. If you let other’s, usually stupid/bad, opinions control you then you’re in for some rougher times. “does it matter if someone thinks you are ugly if they ain’t worth it? If they just can’t see? IF they just don’t get it?” Don’t get yourself down just because others cannot see it, you just need like yourself and ignore those who say otherwise. Some of those flaws are not flaws or as Kato says “Some call those imperfections – but really: that is the good stuff.” Don’t change yourself to fit others, be who you want to be. I don’t mean to say you can’t take others into consideration, but don’t let them control you… if they don’t like it, well screw ’em.
Anywho, keep feelin’ good 🙂
@WillTickin- ya i get that. its just hard for me to do..i dont take being hated well and if its because of my appearance i will do anything to fix it and as far as being who i wanna be? i am (unless you mean be myself) i have like over 5 personalities..if you havent yet, read my post “Me..” kinda gives a better understanding of how i am.
Well sorry, didn’t mean to sound like it was a walk in the park saying it’s easy. Sorry. I know being hated isn’t an easy thing…but I do still want you to try to ignore them and their stupidity. They don’t know beauty then. You need to start on that process of learning to love yourself, and not let others dictate how you think about yourself. I understand you change for other’s happiness, but I think you deserve to put yourself at the top of that list of importance. I know what you mean having personalities for different people and changing, and because of that you lose yourself. I don’t know how to find who you are ’cause I don’t know who I am exactly. But I think it can start by not doing what you don’t feel is right, don’t do something because ANOTHER wants it do it because YOU want to. Sort of make sense? Sorry I’m rambling and trying to explain but it isn’t workin’ too hot. Sorry.
..no need to be sorry if u done nothing wrong. and sometimes i do ignore them..other days i get into a swearing match. also on a good day i put me first..bad days i put the world first.
Meh, still feel the need to say sorry. Ah, well I’m glad to hear you do have days where you ignore ’em/literally say “screw you” and even put yourself first. 🙂 Awesome. Strange where we get to the point where “bad” is put others first…it’s that it is done too much…
oh, lol im 14 and u wouldnt believe the shit i call people when they piss me off instead of “screw you” ive once told this guy to fuck off. eh i guess its not that bad but my parents freak..
Oh I’ve heard the works from a range of ages…but 14 doesn’t surprise me lol. I was just restraining from swearing since none seemed to be going on – so I used “screw you” lol. Good for you lol. I don’t think it’s too bad, especially when you’re standing up for yourself. Heh, well my parents are mormon so if I swear they also would freak.
oh my dad is christian but i call him a religious freak he will find biblical movies and ask actually force me to watch with him my mom on the other hand is ok with mild swearing but my dad just me saying damnit his reaction is not funny at all.
Oh…my…Einstein. I would go crazy. That’s how my dad used to be, then I just started blowing him off and he got the hint. Yea…I bet not…Ugh, religious families.
ha ya with my dad i dont get a choice unless i want to get my phone or lap top taken away its best to do what he says without a word. lol but he doesnt know i have the best starrin trick i just think bout everything i have to deal with at school but i make myself look like im very ammused in his religious hobby when he should know i dont give a damn!
Ugh…I hate when parents force things such as this upon their children. “Look, just because YOU believe this and choose to practice it, doesn’t mean I do!” – sigh… Then they take away things…ayeyeye. Maybe you should stop looking so amused? I don’t know…sorry, doesn’t sound like much fun.
ya i look amused so its not like all im doin is day dreaming bout all the shit that happens to me at school. and i even say i dont care im not watching it..he will say yes u r.
Your father sounds like a character from a book. Loved the book hated the character xD
He was a radical christian and forced his family to move to the Congo cuz he wanted to make it up to god for having been the only one to survive from his regiment in WWII. ANYWAY HAI FAKING IT c: You know what? o: You don’t look amused you look…pretty (:
Nuuuu skype IM pwease? I’ll be ur friend and stuffies D;
Sitting on the couch in a silent house everyone’s still asleep
I think my mom might be up but that’s okay she’s in her room.
Chores suck…Ima hate them even more when I move out
and have to do all the chores in my home xD
I honestly think you’re really good looking, with a very natural look about you. There’s also something quite haunting about the picture, maybe it’s the way you’re smiling through the considerable pain that you’ve clearly experienced.
umm first thanx. second..maybe your right this picture was taken in december when i was being harrassed online by a guy in a chat room that also had my number and he wouldnt leave me alone..but i eventually took care of it and havent heard from him since. otherwise i normally smile like that..when im nervous..im extremely self conscious i was going to a party that night..it was new years.
Thank you for replying to my comment. I’m glad you dealt with the guy who was harassing you online and that he is not bothering you anymore. I’m often self-conscious and nervous too so I can relate to what you’re saying as these feelings, together with the ‘black dog’ of depression have plagued me for much of my life.
idk..to me evryone on here is..ive never once been told im pretty, beautiful, stuff like that..even my parents dont say it..if u read my comment on here to the guardian…..
Awww do I have to read? I have enough hw >.<
You are pretty and you has nice eyes and stuff
I wish I was handsome lol and I'm sorry I'm just not sweet
or good period… :/
Everyone has their beauty, some just can’t see it. I don’t think it can be a lie per se.
/readingskills.
Question though, does the good always outweigh the bad in a person?
it’s not a lie! You’re really really really
really really really really really really
really really really really really really
pretty. And hey will knows I love talking
to pretty girls (: And no I’m sorry there is
no inner good in me..if there is…it’s too small
to be visible..
@will-depends on the good and bad of the person but i try not to care bout the bad..its poor judgement to me.
@AtTheEnd-haha thanks:) so you love talking to me huh? well then you just dont see your good side but its not invisible to me its actually very crystal clear..lol(:
@faking it
Hahaha where did that thought come from? (:
What are you talking about?! that’s preposterous
Wait no, no it’s not. Haha yeah I like talking to you
You seem sweet and stuff (:
And lol you need to get your vision checked?
first..the first sentence was nice but flipin hysterical i thougbt i’d die laughing. huggable really? im hugged all the time by guys but it always shocks me..and sometimes i feel that way bout people too but i know i can never win..the second i find a guy i like i wanna die cuz i know he dont like me..and those guys can say that cuz u have never really met me..and u dont know me..wait til i get skype and i will have to tell you everything..but thats probably a bad idea since u might hate me if i did.
Oh hey yeah i forgot you need to get skype xD
And I know and those guys are lucky to hug
a wonderful person, theres a lot of people
on here that I’d hug if i could! And dont be so
negative about relationships and liking guys..
Skypeeeeee D;
haha im not that wonderful btw. and if i was postive with relationships i would feel as if i have hope wich i do not..no guy likes me they make it freaking obvious all guys do is play me and hug me and pretending they like me.
Skypeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee woman skype DX
And haha I’ll consider you wonderful till you prove me wrong
Hugging doesn’t mean a guy likes you it just can be friendly O.o
I’m confused :c I bet some guy must like you….he’s probably
just afraid. It’s fine though…ur pretty you’ll find someone
and he’ll be lucky to have you n.n
haha im getting the idea your anxious for me to get skype sorry still not on a computer yet..and ya i know hugs mainly with the guys i hug are always friendly im talking bout always getting played when guys hug me they grab my ass yet they have girlfriends..and someone liking me secretly..lol i doubt it..my parents even say they are happy with how i look cuz i will never get a bf with my appearance…
lol I am a bit anxious you should get on a computer woman XD
Or download the skype application if ur on mobile x)
And oh my…lucky guys get a hug and stuff lawl jk forgive my perviness
If they grab ur butt it definitely means u aren’t ugly or anything like that!
It means you has looks and stuff they just enjoy putting you down and taking advantage :/ and ur parents are quite cruel
sorry…im not on mobile either im on my DSi and cant get on a computer til tomorrow……and ya people do take advantage of me cuz i feel the need to make everyone happy and i follow everyones comands. and ya i dont like my parents that much they always hurt me emotionaly…my sister though hurts me phsically.
lol awww that’s cute surfing internet on a DSi XD
And okay well I’ll wait again then x.x….
And I wish people didn’t take advantage of you then..
Don’t listen to people’s commands then :/
Hey what’s your email? (:
or email me xD
natttyyy23 gmail dot com 😀
lol i know its lame..well i got my laptop taken outa my room and i dont have a smartphone sooo whatelse am i to do. and its ok i let people take advantage of me i have to in order to make people happy. il e-mail u.
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Everyone is beautiful in their own way <3
thanx <3
I think you’re beautiful. And fuck the others who sayy you’re not.
thank you. <3
Awh! You’re pretty! 🙂
awh! thank you. 🙂
Well I would 🙂
….ok.
Hey….I was in the conversation last night about the guys calling you ugly. You are definitely NOT ugly! You tell those guys to go fuck themselves, but don’t listen to a word they say!
Omg see?
Those guys were wrong you are not ugly n.n
You look quite cute ;P
Dun let those so called friends make fun of you..okis?
Honestly?
Bright eyed
Fair skinned
Pretty smile
Intelligent
Compassionate
I would be proud to have a child as perfect as you
I agree with fallen 🙂 beautiful & pretty indeed! And screw those if they disagree, because they must be blind.
Though I can see how you “fake it” well.
You’re cute
Strontuim-lmao!
Your cute,It seems like you qotta practice to smile tho.
No way r ugly! Screw those guys, believe me ive had to deal with my share of ass-monkeys haha
lol thank you all <3
@Guardian-aw thats sweet but my parents actually tell me they are happy with the way i look cuz they know guys wont like me..so far they've been right iv been nothin but played.
I see alot of pain behind that smile, I hope someday you will not have to force a smile because youre very pretty inside and outside.
sometimes its a good day others im very self conscious..
Faking it D:
Hey
I told you
that you aren’t ugly u.u
I told you people would tell you the truth here
ya im glad i did this..i actually got 152 views…i only expected maybe one or two views but ya it goes to show the people im around are just too damn judgmental….
Exactly so now you know those guys were jerks
I hope this has really opened your eyes and boosted
ur self esteem even if only a tad bit!
it did:) i actually had no problem going out in public today i spent half my day enjoying the perfect weather like everyone else where i live.
Omfg that’s so wonderful! I’m glad my suggestion was of help (:
One less person thinking they are ugly! I feel accomplished!
me too (:
Now we must spread the word and help others feel good about themselves!!!!
Whoa, a win? Awesome 🙂
Agreed att.
First I wondered why you posted a pic and asked that question. Then I read you had been harrashed by some people the other day, and that may be why
Well, whatever they say they can’t really tell you wether you look good or bad! And actually: does it help that someone says you’re pretty if you are insecure about it yourself?
I’ll give you my token on looking good: it’s all in the mind of the spectator! You may say looks like this or looks like that as much as you want but in the end you’ll come short of what it really is; I sometimes say: this is where the beauty says wow.
One funny thing I have noticed myself, is that much of what can be called beautiful is open for change as I learn to see better. One may notice all kinds of different things and think them beautiful or cool; just look at art & music & so.
Then I’ll turn my question above the other way around: does it matter if someone thinks you are ugly if they ain’t worth it? If they just can’t see? IF they just don’t get it?
And, dunno if you can use it for something, but as one of my friends have said somewhere: “Some call those imperfections – but really: that is the good stuff.” 😉
soo true att!!!
@faking it
Indeed friend! o: <
Bleh I'm hungry
How are you?
im good. i just had a fro-yo. soo yummy.
@kato-i know its jacked up but i make sure i look good for others and for me..but im not my judge the world is my judge. i care what others think even if they aint worth it. it shows me my flaws and i fix them to prevent being harrassed again. i am obsessive of my appearance but its cuz im harrassed constantly cuz of it. to me its only made me slightly stronger. i occasionally gained a more better self-esteem through it too.
I’m glad to hear that you’re doing well c:
..thanx..how are you?
I think there is indeed somethin’ you can take from Kato’s post…(I liked it at least). It’s important how YOU see yourself, not how others. If you let other’s, usually stupid/bad, opinions control you then you’re in for some rougher times. “does it matter if someone thinks you are ugly if they ain’t worth it? If they just can’t see? IF they just don’t get it?” Don’t get yourself down just because others cannot see it, you just need like yourself and ignore those who say otherwise. Some of those flaws are not flaws or as Kato says “Some call those imperfections – but really: that is the good stuff.” Don’t change yourself to fit others, be who you want to be. I don’t mean to say you can’t take others into consideration, but don’t let them control you… if they don’t like it, well screw ’em.
Anywho, keep feelin’ good 🙂
@WillTickin- ya i get that. its just hard for me to do..i dont take being hated well and if its because of my appearance i will do anything to fix it and as far as being who i wanna be? i am (unless you mean be myself) i have like over 5 personalities..if you havent yet, read my post “Me..” kinda gives a better understanding of how i am.
Well sorry, didn’t mean to sound like it was a walk in the park saying it’s easy. Sorry. I know being hated isn’t an easy thing…but I do still want you to try to ignore them and their stupidity. They don’t know beauty then. You need to start on that process of learning to love yourself, and not let others dictate how you think about yourself. I understand you change for other’s happiness, but I think you deserve to put yourself at the top of that list of importance. I know what you mean having personalities for different people and changing, and because of that you lose yourself. I don’t know how to find who you are ’cause I don’t know who I am exactly. But I think it can start by not doing what you don’t feel is right, don’t do something because ANOTHER wants it do it because YOU want to. Sort of make sense? Sorry I’m rambling and trying to explain but it isn’t workin’ too hot. Sorry.
..no need to be sorry if u done nothing wrong. and sometimes i do ignore them..other days i get into a swearing match. also on a good day i put me first..bad days i put the world first.
Meh, still feel the need to say sorry. Ah, well I’m glad to hear you do have days where you ignore ’em/literally say “screw you” and even put yourself first. 🙂 Awesome. Strange where we get to the point where “bad” is put others first…it’s that it is done too much…
oh, lol im 14 and u wouldnt believe the shit i call people when they piss me off instead of “screw you” ive once told this guy to fuck off. eh i guess its not that bad but my parents freak..
Oh I’ve heard the works from a range of ages…but 14 doesn’t surprise me lol. I was just restraining from swearing since none seemed to be going on – so I used “screw you” lol. Good for you lol. I don’t think it’s too bad, especially when you’re standing up for yourself. Heh, well my parents are mormon so if I swear they also would freak.
oh my dad is christian but i call him a religious freak he will find biblical movies and ask actually force me to watch with him my mom on the other hand is ok with mild swearing but my dad just me saying damnit his reaction is not funny at all.
Oh…my…Einstein. I would go crazy. That’s how my dad used to be, then I just started blowing him off and he got the hint. Yea…I bet not…Ugh, religious families.
ha ya with my dad i dont get a choice unless i want to get my phone or lap top taken away its best to do what he says without a word. lol but he doesnt know i have the best starrin trick i just think bout everything i have to deal with at school but i make myself look like im very ammused in his religious hobby when he should know i dont give a damn!
Ugh…I hate when parents force things such as this upon their children. “Look, just because YOU believe this and choose to practice it, doesn’t mean I do!” – sigh… Then they take away things…ayeyeye. Maybe you should stop looking so amused? I don’t know…sorry, doesn’t sound like much fun.
ya i look amused so its not like all im doin is day dreaming bout all the shit that happens to me at school. and i even say i dont care im not watching it..he will say yes u r.
Your father sounds like a character from a book. Loved the book hated the character xD
He was a radical christian and forced his family to move to the Congo cuz he wanted to make it up to god for having been the only one to survive from his regiment in WWII. ANYWAY HAI FAKING IT c: You know what? o: You don’t look amused you look…pretty (:
hahaha…well thank you:)
Hahaha x)
You should download skype so we can IM(instant message)
lol cuz waiting for comments sucks xD
But hai what’s up? (:
umm maybe..we culd always e-mail too. anyways not much eventually gotta do chores but they never take me long. how about you?
Nuuuu skype IM pwease? I’ll be ur friend and stuffies D;
Sitting on the couch in a silent house everyone’s still asleep
I think my mom might be up but that’s okay she’s in her room.
Chores suck…Ima hate them even more when I move out
and have to do all the chores in my home xD
ok but il do it tomorrow..im not on the computer.
Thank you. You’re so kind (:
And it’s fine I won’t die of waiting.
You okay?
ya im ok. why? do i not seem ok?
The dots just made me question that’s all. I had a girlfriend who would always use dots when she was upset that’s all. Sorry
dont be sorry..its a force of habit when i was texting this one guy i never knew why i did it but now i always do…
It’s fine I’ll just ask if ur okay from time to time xD
Force of habit as well (:
its a nice force of habit though:) ur a good person.
lol no it’s a force of habit that follows dotty texters and commentors XD
And no I’m not a good person :/
XD..yes u r..why wouldnt u b? i think yor amazing 🙂
Awww that’s sweet but I’m not. I’m truly not…
then why arent you?
I honestly think you’re really good looking, with a very natural look about you. There’s also something quite haunting about the picture, maybe it’s the way you’re smiling through the considerable pain that you’ve clearly experienced.
umm first thanx. second..maybe your right this picture was taken in december when i was being harrassed online by a guy in a chat room that also had my number and he wouldnt leave me alone..but i eventually took care of it and havent heard from him since. otherwise i normally smile like that..when im nervous..im extremely self conscious i was going to a party that night..it was new years.
Thank you for replying to my comment. I’m glad you dealt with the guy who was harassing you online and that he is not bothering you anymore. I’m often self-conscious and nervous too so I can relate to what you’re saying as these feelings, together with the ‘black dog’ of depression have plagued me for much of my life.
oh that sucks..my self-consciousness also got me an eating disorder…that i eventually got over to some extent.
I’m not a good person cuz I say so :/
Haven’t always done the best of things
i may seem nice and good but
ya i havent done the best things either but…uh ya never mind i wouldnt say ima good person either.
lol you look nice enough (:
Probably a better person than me :/
aww your so sweet but i wont let u insult yourself..its sad.
@faking it
I know it’s sad but it’s the truth!
And how am I being sweet?
idk..to me evryone on here is..ive never once been told im pretty, beautiful, stuff like that..even my parents dont say it..if u read my comment on here to the guardian…..
Awww do I have to read? I have enough hw >.<
You are pretty and you has nice eyes and stuff
I wish I was handsome lol and I'm sorry I'm just not sweet
or good period… :/
no u dont have too…..and thanx im starting to get dat now. lol i can argue on that til hell freezes over there is good in everyone……no matter what…..
lol well hey it’s kinda fun telling a girl she’s pretty? 😉
Ahahahaha argue what till hell freezes over?
that there is good in everyone…Hm.
haha even if its a lie? and yes willtickin is right. good job man. lol 🙂
Everyone has their beauty, some just can’t see it. I don’t think it can be a lie per se.
/readingskills.
Question though, does the good always outweigh the bad in a person?
it’s not a lie! You’re really really really
really really really really really really
really really really really really really
pretty. And hey will knows I love talking
to pretty girls (: And no I’m sorry there is
no inner good in me..if there is…it’s too small
to be visible..
@will-depends on the good and bad of the person but i try not to care bout the bad..its poor judgement to me.
@AtTheEnd-haha thanks:) so you love talking to me huh? well then you just dont see your good side but its not invisible to me its actually very crystal clear..lol(:
@faking it
Hahaha where did that thought come from? (:
What are you talking about?! that’s preposterous
Wait no, no it’s not. Haha yeah I like talking to you
You seem sweet and stuff (:
And lol you need to get your vision checked?
idk..aw thanks..but haha how am i sweet? and i did get my vision checked..its all good and crystal clear..lol 🙂
You just seem sweet and huggable xD
How can those guys say you aren’t gf material? D: <
DOn't you ever get those feelings about people?
first..the first sentence was nice but flipin hysterical i thougbt i’d die laughing. huggable really? im hugged all the time by guys but it always shocks me..and sometimes i feel that way bout people too but i know i can never win..the second i find a guy i like i wanna die cuz i know he dont like me..and those guys can say that cuz u have never really met me..and u dont know me..wait til i get skype and i will have to tell you everything..but thats probably a bad idea since u might hate me if i did.
Oh hey yeah i forgot you need to get skype xD
And I know and those guys are lucky to hug
a wonderful person, theres a lot of people
on here that I’d hug if i could! And dont be so
negative about relationships and liking guys..
Skypeeeeee D;
haha im not that wonderful btw. and if i was postive with relationships i would feel as if i have hope wich i do not..no guy likes me they make it freaking obvious all guys do is play me and hug me and pretending they like me.
Skypeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee woman skype DX
And haha I’ll consider you wonderful till you prove me wrong
Hugging doesn’t mean a guy likes you it just can be friendly O.o
I’m confused :c I bet some guy must like you….he’s probably
just afraid. It’s fine though…ur pretty you’ll find someone
and he’ll be lucky to have you n.n
haha im getting the idea your anxious for me to get skype sorry still not on a computer yet..and ya i know hugs mainly with the guys i hug are always friendly im talking bout always getting played when guys hug me they grab my ass yet they have girlfriends..and someone liking me secretly..lol i doubt it..my parents even say they are happy with how i look cuz i will never get a bf with my appearance…
lol I am a bit anxious you should get on a computer woman XD
Or download the skype application if ur on mobile x)
And oh my…lucky guys get a hug and stuff lawl jk forgive my perviness
If they grab ur butt it definitely means u aren’t ugly or anything like that!
It means you has looks and stuff they just enjoy putting you down and taking advantage :/ and ur parents are quite cruel
sorry…im not on mobile either im on my DSi and cant get on a computer til tomorrow……and ya people do take advantage of me cuz i feel the need to make everyone happy and i follow everyones comands. and ya i dont like my parents that much they always hurt me emotionaly…my sister though hurts me phsically.
lol awww that’s cute surfing internet on a DSi XD
And okay well I’ll wait again then x.x….
And I wish people didn’t take advantage of you then..
Don’t listen to people’s commands then :/
Hey what’s your email? (:
or email me xD
natttyyy23 gmail dot com 😀
lol i know its lame..well i got my laptop taken outa my room and i dont have a smartphone sooo whatelse am i to do. and its ok i let people take advantage of me i have to in order to make people happy. il e-mail u.
Far more beautiful than you can even understand. If you KNEW how attractive you were – you WOULD be a model. You only lack the self confidence.
I hope that did not sound nasty. I mean it in a NICE way. That is all.