fallen i understand how you feel, i can’t cut myself either…
rebel & attheend it’s hard to explain, it’s like you feel that you will be in less pain if you cut yourself because the physical pain will distract you 🙁
@AngelLilith- I know how it is. I cut all the time. I do it to get away from the emotional pain. I want to cut all the time but I can’t cause they locked up my blades so I only get to do it every so often.
@AtTheEnd- what comment did I not reply to??? Im sory! I look for all our convos and try to keep up but sometimes I miss one or two.
Mmmm such smart Angels here!
You are right,
Cutting is what we do to get the inside pain, outside on our flesh.
Yup, cutting can actually make you feel better.
It’s a coping mechanism, but it looks like suicide so it freaks people out!
kids who get caught cutting by their parents are made to stop but that can often make them feel worse.
So yes, it takes strength to cut and strength to quit.
Is there a way to cope with emotional pain without damaging yourself?
I didn’t mean you didn’t know, i was pretty sure you know the feeling, i’m saying that i think is worst when you don’t have the strength to do it.
@the Guardian well i speak with my friends and how they are sick of it they just say “pick a f** thing and do it”… they know i wont, least if someone tell me to.
Other times i just go to sleep and try to think about future stories to write -i’m a writer so that kinda distracts me- what do you do when you can’t cut?
@AtTheEnd- hey I’m back. I guess my parents aren’t sleeping yet…they are fighting…again. 🙁 They seem to be doing alot of that lately. 🙁 But either way if there is a will then there is a way! You are three hours behind me though right? I live in NEw York.
@rebel I know the messaje wasn’t for me but i’ll thell you something, in certain way is good that your parents fight between them, that distracts them and they are all full of anger and depression so they wont be all over you… at least that’s what i think 🙂 that makes me feel better when i lisent they are whispering when they think i’m asleep or screaming when my little brother isn’t around
no i get that but it doesn’t keep them off my back. atleast not all the time. ugh its just annoying, but i guess i should look at it in that respective.
For me cutting is a release of stress… Nevertheless, try wearing elastic bands around your wrists so whenever you feel like cutting, just pull them and let them whip back on your wrist- it kinda feels the same and it’s really good as a substitution. It may leave red marks, but they’ll go away- it’s definately better than scars that last forever…
I think this will really help you. Pull on them as much as you want, just don’t cut.
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why do you wna the strength to cut? i want the strength not to cut.
rebel never replied to my comment o:
and fallen don’tdo it…if u cut i cut D:
If you have given up and started to cut, I will give up and I will start to cut again. Please don’t do that.
fallen i understand how you feel, i can’t cut myself either…
rebel & attheend it’s hard to explain, it’s like you feel that you will be in less pain if you cut yourself because the physical pain will distract you 🙁
lol lilith I know i cut myself sometimes to do that :c
@AngelLilith- I know how it is. I cut all the time. I do it to get away from the emotional pain. I want to cut all the time but I can’t cause they locked up my blades so I only get to do it every so often.
@AtTheEnd- what comment did I not reply to??? Im sory! I look for all our convos and try to keep up but sometimes I miss one or two.
Mmmm such smart Angels here!
You are right,
Cutting is what we do to get the inside pain, outside on our flesh.
Yup, cutting can actually make you feel better.
It’s a coping mechanism, but it looks like suicide so it freaks people out!
kids who get caught cutting by their parents are made to stop but that can often make them feel worse.
So yes, it takes strength to cut and strength to quit.
Is there a way to cope with emotional pain without damaging yourself?
@rebel
It’s fine rebel and it was about skyping (:
Ur only human anyway
I didn’t mean you didn’t know, i was pretty sure you know the feeling, i’m saying that i think is worst when you don’t have the strength to do it.
@the Guardian well i speak with my friends and how they are sick of it they just say “pick a f** thing and do it”… they know i wont, least if someone tell me to.
Other times i just go to sleep and try to think about future stories to write -i’m a writer so that kinda distracts me- what do you do when you can’t cut?
Oh okis sowwie >.<
@AtTheEnd sowwie? sorry, my original lenguage is not english -i’m actually latin- so i don’t understand all the words :S
@AtTheEnd- hey I’m back. I guess my parents aren’t sleeping yet…they are fighting…again. 🙁 They seem to be doing alot of that lately. 🙁 But either way if there is a will then there is a way! You are three hours behind me though right? I live in NEw York.
@rebel I know the messaje wasn’t for me but i’ll thell you something, in certain way is good that your parents fight between them, that distracts them and they are all full of anger and depression so they wont be all over you… at least that’s what i think 🙂 that makes me feel better when i lisent they are whispering when they think i’m asleep or screaming when my little brother isn’t around
no i get that but it doesn’t keep them off my back. atleast not all the time. ugh its just annoying, but i guess i should look at it in that respective.
@rebel
Oh hai n.n
it’s fine and I’m sorry about ur parents :/
I am three hours behind you
@angellilith
I’m latin too O.o but english and spanish are my first languages xD
sowwie is my cute way of saying sorry D;
@AtTheEnd- haha well then i can stay up so just tell me what time is the latest for you.
For me cutting is a release of stress… Nevertheless, try wearing elastic bands around your wrists so whenever you feel like cutting, just pull them and let them whip back on your wrist- it kinda feels the same and it’s really good as a substitution. It may leave red marks, but they’ll go away- it’s definately better than scars that last forever…
I think this will really help you. Pull on them as much as you want, just don’t cut.
– Nobody
@rebel
I thought you had a bed time D:
@nobody- i do the rubberband thing and though it helps for times i cant cut it doesnt stop me at the times when my blades are unlocked.
@AtTheEnd- Im sixteen, I technically don’t have a bedtime. And its friday…i can stay up as late as i want! 🙂
@rebel
lol I’m older than you and I have a bed time…whenever my mom gets up and starts lecturing. And so I’m guessing no skype? o:
@ AtTheEnd-I can skype in a about 15 minutes.
@Rebel
weeee!
That’s great..my pills are kicking in so I hope I’m awake if not I’ll send a text saying night xD
@AtTheEnd- hey i can skype now. my skype name is determined.rebel
@AtTheEnd- i got ur comment then it faded. i dont know what im doing on this thing. 🙂