I’m 41 yo female, I don’t have any kids. My family don’t talk to me. I have been formally diagnosed with aspergers. I have a low grade glioma in my brain stem (superior colliculus). I have a chiari 1 malformation. Both the tumour and chiari cause migraines, nausea and anxiety. I’m depressed, and everyone I speak to says that is understandable given my situation. I havent any friends – thanks to a combination of my aspergers and terminal illness. People walk away as if it’s catching or something. I’ve tried phoning helplines but all they do is tell me to see a psychologist or try deep breathing exercises. I see a psych regularly. Hes doing what he can, but it’s not enough. This website has a link – if you’re feeling suicidal read it first. Ive given myself the time out, the 24 hours, in fact I’ve delayed suicide for nearly a year. I hate my life. Every part of it. The only people I have to talk to are paid to talk to me.
Forgot to say, I’m homeless, living in a temporary women’s shelter.
All my future holds is more symptoms from the tumour and chiari. More pain. Why do I need to live? Why is it so important to the police? The hospital psych? Nobody except the people who are paid to talk to me would attend my funeral anyway, and I’m sure most wouldn’t bother.
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You are valuable. You may not feel like it right now, and as I say this to you I should say it to myself. I don’t know how you feel about God but if you look at the birds, they don’t have hands, but look, they are well fed and they have shelter! They do not worry about storing up food for the winter! And look at the lillies of the field! They do not worry about working overtime for a nice wardrobe but they are better dressed than we are! Who cares for their needs? How much more valuable are humans than birds and flowers?!
This system of things is messed up but there is hope, not through humans I’m afraid. People are unable to fill our needs, but God has promised to bind up the broken hearted ones. If God were in control of this world you wouldn’t be homeless.
This is my first post here, you are not alone… You are important
Hi, Have you looked in alternative health/ healing like Reiki, or healing with crystals and their are many others. They could help. I send healing energy to you anushka.bear. Ask the doctors to help you let go demand it from them. I am trying to find a lawyer that is will to help me fight for the die proud. I wish for your wish.