ugh! i knew faking it would come back and bite me someday that day would be yesterday and now all summer. one day 20 minutes and a guy fell for me??? but not ME my fake me! now he wants to get to know “me” all summer? great. should i fool him and keep my fake personality going? or should i open up and tell him EVERYTHING? suicidal, depression, cutting, everything, he already knows the worst part..that im a whore! haha perfect. what am i supposed to do..?
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No one can tell you what to do that’s your choice to make. The human condition, no matter what the circumstances were condemned to freedom of choice however, if it were I…faking it is easier than being who we are I do the same, but if you choose to stay with him it could hurt him far worse in the long run than just ending it in the beginning before ‘the roots begin to take hold ‘. You could always tell him the whole truth but id be sure hes prepared for the long run atleast as a friend before being an open book cause it could always backfire. Just my 2 cents
Hey! Um don’t fake yourself but don’t just spill everything about you in one conversation.
You need to learn the artful mastery of interaction amidst your circumstances. Follow your gut, enjoy the experience. Don’t bog yourself down in some kind of moral dilemma…all of our circumstances require creative thinking and definitely give yourself the benefit of the doubt. Let other people look after themselves and think what they want and you just continue to do your best. Cheers!