My friend kinda had privilege from the beginning, which made her a little selfish in the way she handled things. Well, our relationship started coming apart when her mom saw how affectionate I was with her. (And not kissing or anything, but I was kinda needy when it came to affection back in 9th grade.) I would hug her alot, well my friend wasn’t this huggy with anybody (not even to her mom as far as I could tell.)
My friend had also, been friends with another girl in the past, who was really affectionate (like call her on the phone everynite obsessively affectionate.) My friend’s mom was worried about this relationship between her daughter and her friend and soon banned them for seeing each other. My friend didn’t take it too hard, but always wanted to get back together with this friend of hers, which struck me as odd even to this day.(more about this later).
Moving on, my friend’s mom had seen how huggy I’d been with my friend and told her daughter not to hug me anymore. I was shocked and confused as to why this was, and I asked my friend, but she wouldn’t give me a straight answer. It was after this that our relationship started to crumble. Her relationship with her mother also kinda shocked me. Because whenever I wanted an answer to why my friends mom was doing this, I could never hear it from the mom. This made me upset with my friend, because she seemed to not even care that this effected me, and insted would support her own mother.
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Hey Redisblue,
I just read your Lonesome Sometimes Part 1 and 2- I plan to read all of them but already at this point, I feel like I need to give you a hug… <3
Thank you 😀 but, my story here is to try and put to rest the memory of my friend in the hopes of moving on from her. I have moved on from her (much more that she as far as i can tell) And I’ve made new friends and had new experiences, but she always brings up those painfull memories so this is sorta like my final testament to this chapter in my life. Thx for reading it!! I hope I did it justice XD
Redisblue,
I read EVERY single word you wrote, don’t worry. 🙂 You’re actually definately helping me out in my similar situation. I still haven’t moved on from it but your experience is defiantely helping me- thanks for sharing it
-Nobody
I’m really glad that my story has helped you!!! I hope that when people read the words I put they can find some comfort in that I went through this rubbish. And I hope you feel better of your situation! I know that It may seem hard to get over, but time does help in a way. and after a while it begins to go away. Thx so much for reading 😀
Redisblue, I just want to echo Nobody in saying, I too get where you’re coming from, I too have suffered the loss of a close friend and one that meant a lot to me, and this is at age 50!! I think your idea of writing the story at some length for closure is an excellent one which I could think about emulating…Thanks so much for sharing it. Zx