Hello My Name is will im very lonley will never be smart the only girl i like is double my age i got no idea how to ask her out shes my only hope of being happy im not legal of the age (I dont want to hear date someone your own age girls my ages are sluts stuck up no personality) im very very sad in life currently how would i ask her out or flirt with her shes great may be bisexual no boyfriend or husband no man in her life loves animals may possibly like me PLEASE HELP VERY DEPRESSED
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You should try hanging out with her a couple of times without calling it a “date”. Then she’ll get to know you better and you’ll feel more comfortable with asking her out on a legitimate date.
My advice first and foremost though: never base your emotional stability on another person’s feelings towards you (although I am quite the hypocrite for saying that).
im 15 shes around 38 i know it sounds sad is there any way i dont like her cause of her looks cause of her personality
May I ask how you met?
And usually I say that love knows no age, but what might be holding her back is your age difference.
i know her from my moms work she inturduced me to her i didnt like her cause of her looks at first. we went to the beach one weekend she came on a saturday i spent the night at her motel and we were talking n i fell in love im starting to go to her house n talk a little bit
Do you truly feel as if there is a meaningful, deep future for this relationship?
And as much as I hate to bring it up: what would your parents say/think?
my mom wouldnt care and yes im madly in love with her. im very depresed not talking to her i still talk to people my own age i got friends dont like them at all.
I understand that you love her. But what kind of relationship or future do you see for the two of you?
i see people saying its odd . i personly dont care what they think it would be a very serious relatioship
How do you think she feels about you?
i honslty dont know i hope she likes me.
There is no way of knowing unless you two talk.
But be ready for any sort of response. I’m not trying to be pessimistic, but do not go into the conversation expecting anything- that way you can’t and won’t get hurt if the situation doesn’t turn out how you want it to.
but how do i bring it up were both shy and i get embarssed easily.
Schedule a time to meet and say that you need to talk to her about something. That way you can’t back out.
what do i say tho with out being embarresd
Unfortunately, you can’t plan a conversation. Because what if she doesn’t say what you expect her to say? That’ll blow your whole plan. It sucks, but you’ve got to come right out and say it.
do i just like say what do you honslty think about me and go from there
Yes. But schedule a time and date to meet with her. Backing out will not solve anything.
what if i get rejected and be sad. i get really embarsed.
Rejection hurts, no doubt about that. But if she doesn’t feel the same way you can’t force it. It wouldn’t be worth it.
i mean its not sex i want i just want to be loved acception huged and kissed.
I’m not saying that’s what you want. But if you tell her how you feel and she doesn’t feel the same way, then she isn’t meant to be the one that loves you, hugs you, kisses you, and accepts you.