Where the mentally ill roam

I have an undying urge to be a part something larger.  I want to live in a city where there are so many things going on I have a choice where to put myself.  I want to be exposed to as many cultures as possible.  I want to cook good meals with an assortment of flavorings, meats, and vegetables. I want to be able to ride a bike everywhere.  I want a tiny apartment. I want to be able to go to an edgy comedy club, and go to a jazz bar, in the same night.  I need variety.

I have always seen myself moving to a large city. Ironically enough I have an extremely severe social phobia.  Is this compulsion human or is it simply a desire the mentally ill have in common?  Lets find out! You tell me where you want to live.

I know my choice would most certainly be New York City.