HI,IAM ALISON OF 13YRS..I LIVE IN MALAYSIA…… I USED TO BE A VERY HAPPY GIRL ,A FUN LOVING GIRL….WHO ALL LOVED ALOT!!…BUT NOW IAM JUST IN DEPRESSION Â ITS BEEN Â 3 MONTHS SINCE A BOY NAMED RALPH DUMPED ME !..HE SAID HE DOESNT LOVE ME ANYMORE!!.HE SAID I SHOULD MOVE ON !!..NOW THAT I CANT MOVE ON I WANT TO DIE ..I DONT WANNA LIVE IN THIS WORLD !IVE CRIED ALOT AND IAM TIRED OF CRYING MORE….PLS HELP ME …….. MY EYES HURT I GET NO SLEEP IN THE NIGHTS IVE TRIED ALOT TO FORGET HIM BUT I LOVE HIM TOO MUCH!..HE GOT A GIRL HE’S LIVING HIS LIFE HAPPILY…N I SAW HIM KISS HIS GIRL IN FRONT OF ME!..I HAVE ALOT OF MEMORIES WITH HIM …MY FIRST KISS ..MY FIRST SMOOCHE..MY FIRST HUG….ALL MY MEMORIES ARE STILL IN MY HEART!..I CANT FORGET HIM AND THE MEMORIES HE LEFT BEHIND..I LOVE HIM SOO MUCH….I STILL REMEBER HIS SMELL THE TOUCH HIS HANDS HIS HEART BEAT!!!…..EVERYTHING ..I FEEL SOO BLUE…..IAM LOST WITHOUT HIM HE IS MY LIFE Â ..WELL HE IS MORE THAN MY WORLD …I CANT LIVE IN THIS WORLD WITHOUT HIM……………
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That’s life – every time you trust someone, fall in love, etc. you’re risking being betrayed, hurt, etc.
So there’s only two things you can do:
– don’t trust, fall in love,
– trust, fall in love, but bear in mind that it can hurt you.
Thanks 🙂
The way you are feeling right now is completely normal when someone breaks up with you and when still love him/her. I know (because it happened to me once) it feels like the pain won’t ever go away, but I can promise you it will. You will see that time heals all wounds. One day you will find another boy that you will fall in love with and after a while you will see your old boyfriend in a different way. But this will take some time. Even though it seems impossible, you will fall in love again with someone else someday. But, I know your pain and I know how deeply it cuts..
The things that helped me were sports (this makes you feel a lot better when you do it 3x a week), seeing friends and talking to them, seeing family and try to bond with your other loved ones