My best friend has already decided she wants to die. she already has a plan, and she plans to do it very soon. probably over thanksgiving break (but i really really really hope not!!) i have told her so many times, and in so many ways that i want her to stay, and that she can get better, and things WILL get better if she lets them. but she has decided that she doesnt want to get better, she doesnt want things to get better, she just wants her easy way out of it. which i do understand.. i suffer with these problems myself, i just have a more level head sometimes.
i dont think anything i say or do will change her mind. i have taken all of the steps that a person should take when trying to help someone who is suicidal. every step, ive taken it. but it hasnt done anything.
should i just accept her suicide? just let her go? she clearly doesnt want to be here.. and she wont listen to what i say anymore.. so should i just give up? just let her kill herself?
what should i do??
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Be a
Bicht or barstsed. Tell
thats the thing.. i have! to her mother.. her mom wont believe it.. her mom doesnt believe in depression or in medication.. she just doesnt understand
Age.?
i am 16. my friend is 17
How old is your friend. And you.
i have talked to her mom. a few times. her dads not around much. teachers know.. but dont care
huh?
Donnie why are you being so insensitive? Seriously people on this sight dont want people to troll their pages rather people to give decent advice and hope for a better tomorrow… before you post remember that we are all hurting and trying to stay strong.
Call the police and they may be able to help if you have already told counselors and parnets thats the only thing I can think of but I guess I am kinda being a hippocrite since I want to die but I am stopping this girl..
I know how your friend feels and all I can say (even tho I hate people saying it to me) is that she is still here – so there is something keeping her here. I would like someone to stop telling me the bloody obvious and help me discover what is keeping me here – maybe you can help your friend do that? She’s lucky to have you, but remember to look after yourself.
if ever want help figuring out why your still here, feel free to talk to me whenever! im good at solving other peoples problems, or making them feel better.. but cant do it for myself 😛 oh well. thats life i guess? ugh. life. FML