i can’t get the fact that I’m bisexual and it hurts because my parents are against it. So I’ve been wanting to tell them but I’m scared. Once I tried telling them but they just got mad so I finding want to make things worst so I just shut up and let it go. I dating someone to and I just can’t hide her from everyone else. I want the world to know that i love her. But I don’t want people to judge me either. I’m just worthless
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Can you guys please help me and not ignore this. This is really breaking me apart.
If you don’t think it’s the right time then wait. Don’t put yourself in a stressful situation if it can be avoided. Even if your parents don’t agree immediately they’ll simply have to learn to accept it. Of course you already know there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being bisexual. You’re not worthless and even if you were it certainly wouldn’t be caused by your sexual orientation. Anyone who say’s otherwise is simply mistaken. You’ve no need to feel ashamed.
If you’re a minor and your parents are absolutely against something like this, so much so that they would throw you out of the house, then you should wait. Because as good as it is being in love, a place to live and feel safe in comes first.
If you’re older, tell them. Because you’re an adult and you can make your own descisions. If they’re mistakes, you’ll learn from them. If not, you’ll continue to be happy. If they disown you and never want to see you again, then don’t regret it. Because what’s done is done. And then try to, if you want any kids, raise a family where these things are tolerable. End the cycle.
That said, it’s still ultimately your own descision when and if you tell them 🙂
Also, just be nice to other people, when you’re feeling down. It’s cliche, but on these forums, just one little kind word can save a life and that actually may just make you happy as well.
And furthermore, we’re here for you. We’ll always listen to you. If you want any advice, just ask us 🙂
You’re CLEARLY not worthless if someone else loves you.
People judge you no matter what you do, Star Lopez…
*I* judged you the moment I read your post, judged you to be someone clearly caring and desiring to be devoted to someone you love…that we should all be so lucky–and thus someone who deserves help and a warm cyber handshake, as it were.
The world judges you no matter WHAT you do, Star Lopez–
It’s your choice to care what the world says or not.
They can taunt you, they can call you names…
They can threaten to sever ties and scorn you…
They may hurl slings and arrows of outrageous fortune–
And it’s your choice whether ’tis nobler to suffer all that…
Or take arms against it and say “This is who I am, this is who I love, and the person I am and the bond between us WILL NOT be destroyed by idle words, empty hatred and a lack of understanding on YOUR part.”
I am not in love, Star Lopez.
I am not a loving person, will never be in love–and I’m fine with that.
I’m cold, calculating, exacting and obsessive in my work and my goals.
I’d rather converse with all the brilliant women of the world than let one down.
And that’s fine…but that’s ME, not you.
If you ARE a lover, Star Lopez,
If you are better by this woman’s being with you, made stronger, better whole,
If you have a better life for it and can make her life better for your being there,
If you would rather spend your life with this one woman than nine lives without…
Hold onto that, Star Lover, and hold onto her–she’s worth it, then, and so are you.
And damn the world and anyone who says otherwise.
(Holy shit, Sherlock Hamlet! You made ME feel like the queen of the world and this wasn’t even directed at me… And I’m not even depressed! You have a gift with words!)
dont worry. xx my parents are very judgemental, that is why i don’t tell them anything. I’m bi sexual to, and also dating someone (a boy :3) I haven’t told my parents, as i don’t really trust them yet, but if you want to tell them, go ahead. If they judge you, its there fault not yours, and you are not worthless, and you need to do whatever you feel comfortable with xx
Star Lopez,
You are asking for help on this and I’m not going to lie to you, it doesn’t matter how I feel about the bi sexual thing ,it doesn’t matter how your friends feel or anyone else for that matter, if your parents are against it you’re not going to change their mind, perhaps in 30 years but not now, you can say fuck it and do what you want don’t expect them to go along with it they won’t, remember if you start something like that nobody forgets for a long time, I myself would keep my affairs private to avoid harassment from people ,life isn’t fair that’s the way it is people are predigest that’s the way it is, if you want to carry the flag and run be ready for people to shoot at you, not only at home but at work at school everywhere. I personally don’t care but I’ve seen a lot of people in my time get hurt. I’m glad I’m not one of them.
Predigest? Xxxxxxx spell check!
Thanks you Guys. ill take all this comments and think about it. I was really close to telling me. and my dad just flipped out when i said why does he have to go against GAy marriages. So yeah i thikk its best if i just wait. But thanks 🙂
Thanks Man, your really good with words and your words gave me a Lil bit of More strenghth to keep on walking this earth with my head held high