So today he tells me
“you’re stupid, not trustworthy, not reliable, you sit on your ass all day, you’re ridiculous, unreasonable, not wife material, and Brittany (who happens to be my mortal enemy) is better than you”
I can’t say I’m going to kill myself over this, but I can say that things are adding up and lately I’m hearing a LOT less good about me than bad and these aren’t the things you want your fiance to say. So breaking up after 5 years is going to be really horrible for me but…I don’t know what to do. I’m clearly not lovable.
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i no how you feel sometimes my life is shit
Sounds kind of like a list somebody would say if they wanted to make someone feel like crap. I don’t wanna tell you whether to break up with him since I have almost no info on anything surrounding that, but I hope you’re not taking that all to heart.
Surely you’re lovable if you stayed with someone for 5 years, and put up with hearing things like that for however long they’ve gone on.
It hurt very badly :/
Being insulted by someone you love always hurts. I’m sorry things aren’t going well.
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I’m sorry 🙁 I’m unlovable too. It’s so painful.
I don’t really believe anyone is unlovable or that it’s impossible to find someone in the world that will take them, but sometimes people need to put in some work or lower their own standards. I suppose a paraplegic might have a hard time finding love, but then again there are other paraplegics.
No, Letmesleep, some of us are unlovable, it just takes other people a while to figure it out sometimes (and sometimes we forget it ourselves, until we’re reminded). Funny you should mention paraplegics… I dated a paraplegic, I was crazy about him and he acted like he was really into me too…but then he blew me off for no apparent reason. There’s something about me that seems appealing to guys at first but doesn’t last, isn’t real…
Sorry, Favorite, it told me the post couldn’t be found 0.0