Things have gotten abit better,but bys, why cant they make up their mind, at this age they all just adct the same, i thought he loed me but he just wanted to shag an im like “WOAH hold back aye? Just want somone who undertsands me.. Can someone please explain why boys act this way?
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Well, even as a guy I can tell you most guys are jerks, (I’m guessing you’re young like me). I guess you could say that love isn’t as much about the emotion for a guy because most guys think they have to act all macho and emotionless. I’m sorry, but a lot of guys are like that. They think stupid things and they believe that love is much less than it really is, it’s obviously much more than something physical, but it takes someone mature to realise that. I can’t explain much because I’m not like these people in that sense, so I don’t know much about it, but you just have to find someone who is special and feels good enough just loving you for being you.
The average guy isn’t looking for love, he’s looking for sex. There are guys though who do want a deeper intimate relationship. Their called ‘nice guys’ and they usually finish last, because girls tend to date the jerks.
If the number 22 in your forum name implies your age, you’re just dating the wrong kind of man. If you’re in jr high/high school, you can’t really trust the words “I love you” because boys your age aren’t mature enough to actually know what that means.
Both types of men exist: those who want love and those who just want sex. Both types of women exist as well. Women like to date selfish, egotistical men with a high probability of leaving them because it’s exciting. However, they also love to play the victim and cry “why are all men so evil” when those men inevitably break their hearts. Instead of choosing stability they choose excitement, and it comes back to bite them every time.
Men have their own areas that they are irrational about. Most men seek physical attractiveness and many aren’t realistic about how attractive they are themselves. A 4/10 man loves to chase 10/10 women and cries endlessly about how he is unlovable, all women are superficial, and how they only date assholes. The reality is the man should lower his own expectations and seek someone who is closer to his own level of attractiveness.
Both men and women are superficial and rarely does anyone want to settle. Everyone wants to feel like they’re getting a great deal – one they don’t deserve. Welcome to relationships.