Please don’t kill yourself over your boyfriend Chelsey. You will meet someone else if he is not the right person for you. People go through break ups all the time.
If a logical person can’t understand why you would want to hurt yourself over a person you never had an intimate relationship with then would what you were planning on be doing be considered irrational? Please see professional help.
I know what you’re feeling Chelsey. It’s hard when you care for someone, but they don’t share the same feelings for you. I’ve experienced this a couple of times before, and it does hurt, but its not worth killing yourself over.
I’ve read your posts. You said you’re were staying alive for your friend. You “love” this kid even though he lives hours away and you never met. You also called your life “gay” So I’m guessing you don’t want to see a counselor. I don’t know what else to tell you then. Good luck.
I posted this in your other post;
“I understand the way you are feeling, the feelings you are having are very normal. But in a while you will start to forget what has happened and you’ll grow over it.
Memories fade over a while, and so will this one. Try to make the coming time just more fun, hang out with friends more and I am sure you wont even remember who he was in 2 years”
I seriously was trying to help you. You have to take yourself outside of the situation. Leave the house for a while. Do something to take your mind off of it. That’s why I said to go talk to a counselor. Depression is very hard to control without talking to someone. I tried for so many years. It didn’t work. I finally started seeing a counselor a few weeks ago. There are good days and a lot of shitty ones. I’m just trying to say that if you wait maybe you’ll see things will get better.
Indeed “PureHatred”. Depression isnt fun and although sometimes you might have better days, or better weeks or even months, it will all come back at some point. Talking to someone is pretty much mandatory to say it that way, else you arent really coming out of it.
Try to talk to friends, family and try to make the coming weeks as fun as possible and things will go better
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Please don’t kill yourself over your boyfriend Chelsey. You will meet someone else if he is not the right person for you. People go through break ups all the time.
i have been single for more then a year, he wasnt my boyfriend, i didnt know him, but i love hi, you probaly wont understND.
If a logical person can’t understand why you would want to hurt yourself over a person you never had an intimate relationship with then would what you were planning on be doing be considered irrational? Please see professional help.
You obvioulsy dont understand me then.
I know what you’re feeling Chelsey. It’s hard when you care for someone, but they don’t share the same feelings for you. I’ve experienced this a couple of times before, and it does hurt, but its not worth killing yourself over.
He does tho! He says he loves me thats why he cant talk to me, he says he always messes things up and hurts people.
I’ve read your posts. You said you’re were staying alive for your friend. You “love” this kid even though he lives hours away and you never met. You also called your life “gay” So I’m guessing you don’t want to see a counselor. I don’t know what else to tell you then. Good luck.
Thanks for your “suport” this made me feel a whole lot better! _._
Do you feel like he is your soulmate Chelsey?
I posted this in your other post;
“I understand the way you are feeling, the feelings you are having are very normal. But in a while you will start to forget what has happened and you’ll grow over it.
Memories fade over a while, and so will this one. Try to make the coming time just more fun, hang out with friends more and I am sure you wont even remember who he was in 2 years”
I seriously was trying to help you. You have to take yourself outside of the situation. Leave the house for a while. Do something to take your mind off of it. That’s why I said to go talk to a counselor. Depression is very hard to control without talking to someone. I tried for so many years. It didn’t work. I finally started seeing a counselor a few weeks ago. There are good days and a lot of shitty ones. I’m just trying to say that if you wait maybe you’ll see things will get better.
Indeed “PureHatred”. Depression isnt fun and although sometimes you might have better days, or better weeks or even months, it will all come back at some point. Talking to someone is pretty much mandatory to say it that way, else you arent really coming out of it.
Try to talk to friends, family and try to make the coming weeks as fun as possible and things will go better