People say suicide is selfish. I think it’s selfish to ask someone live painfully just so that you won’t feel pain for a week or two. Suicide may be a permanent solution to a temporary problem, but it’s also a permanent solution to a problem that grows more intense and overwhelming each day. Suicide is neither a right or wrong act, it just becomes cause of death for some people.
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I agree with you. It’s a personal choice, like anything else. People say it’s selfish because it hurts the ones we leave behind. But they’ll get over it or learn to deal with it and move on. And I’ll be in peace.
It’s just important to remember that suicide is a last resort, and it has to be a decision not rushed into.
I agree with you Pascel Trees
If you have family who actually give a damn about you, that pain will burn forever. 2 weeks isn’t really enough. I don’t think it’s necessarily selfish. I just think it should be something that needs to be carefully looked over countless times. If someone is going to do it, I would expect people to help. Suicide can be prevented and if someone is going to stop someone from taking their own life, then stop them and help them. After someone does it, that person shouldn’t be looked at any badly. Simply put, I don’t think anyone should blame you for something that is unbearable to you. Pain is pain. If you can learn to deal with it, then I support you. If you can’t and you take your self out, I wouldn’t blame you. No one deserves misery.
I’m against suicide, because you will just reincarnate and be faced with the same problems and challenges that you ran from in your present life. You have to deal with your problems and overcome them. Plain and simple.
I believe in recarnation, and I had this message that came to my mind that after this life ill be a poor little Cambodian boy (crazzzyyyy I know) but maybe in the next life your troubles will lessen. I defiantly don’t promote suicide, but it shouldn’t be frowned upon.
Maybe you were a poor Cambodian boy in a previous life?
Nope, my before life was an obese business woman.
Suicide doesn’t mean you go to hell either. NEVER listen to anyone who says that.
I can’t not believe those people, but in my opinion I don’t think people who committ suicide should ever go to hell, why suffer in life then up there? But hell is what I am really scared of happening, even though it makes no sense to go hell.
WAYYYYY longer than 2 weeks for others to recover, though you might not care about that just now.I know people years out still hurting like hell because they loved someone who succeeded in killing themself.
Sheesh…life has SO many dilemmas sometimes.
The rest I totally “get.”
I wrote the first part from what an other person said on this website I was on. If you were pained by a successful suicide for no more than a couple of weeks, that’s heartless.
They will pretend to be hurt as they do at every funeral. In reality no one will care… If they did I would be willing to live anyway…
But what if there is no one. What if there is no one who cares you.about you and its not just a feeling its a fact. Youre all alone and you know it. Then theres really nothing hokding you back. I think suicide is someones own answer and if they feel its the right answer, then ok. Its not anyones answer, its theyre own. No one can answer for you.