I didnt come on here to be judged. i post the stuff that is on my mind and what i truly feel, from previous comments on other posts i dont say im fat to get attention or say im ugly to get compliments what i say is what i feel, if you dont have anything good to say then just fuck off..
I’m really sorry, can’t really figure out why I was acting like that the other day. Been dealing with some fucked up shit of my own lately, guess it boiled over onto the pages.
I hope you can understand that it happens sometimes, to all of us I’m sure.
I remember when I first came here I felt like I was being bombed on, like I couldn’t go anywhere in the world without being judged, not even here.
But im not normally like that, I don’t make people feel bad for who they are, and I’m sorry if I did that to you or anyone else. And I won’t do that again.
You dont have to accept my apology but I really hope you feel better. And keep sharing whatever you feel like without worry of censoring yourself.
Dont let this idiot slow you down. Your strong I know!
If you express anything, expect to be judged. If you are visible to others, expect to be judged. You don’t have to agree or validate judgements you disagree with, but people will judge anything they observe. Judgement is part of perception.
Some might “judge you” in positive ways. Kinda like how many of us insisted that your tummy pic was not “disgusting” and didn’t make you look “fat” or “ugly.”
And others may judge you unfairly, being hypercritical about things you can’t even control, as if it’s your fault for choosing to be what they dislike. People like that exist in the world, and you will inevitably encounter them. It’s best to quickly identify people whose methods of judgement involve invalid criteria, and simply disregard their opinions. In order for anyone’s words to hurt you, you must first value their opinion. You shouldn’t value opinions of people who base them on invalid judgement criteria.
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I’m really sorry, can’t really figure out why I was acting like that the other day. Been dealing with some fucked up shit of my own lately, guess it boiled over onto the pages.
I hope you can understand that it happens sometimes, to all of us I’m sure.
I remember when I first came here I felt like I was being bombed on, like I couldn’t go anywhere in the world without being judged, not even here.
But im not normally like that, I don’t make people feel bad for who they are, and I’m sorry if I did that to you or anyone else. And I won’t do that again.
You dont have to accept my apology but I really hope you feel better. And keep sharing whatever you feel like without worry of censoring yourself.
Dont let this idiot slow you down. Your strong I know!
If you express anything, expect to be judged. If you are visible to others, expect to be judged. You don’t have to agree or validate judgements you disagree with, but people will judge anything they observe. Judgement is part of perception.
Some might “judge you” in positive ways. Kinda like how many of us insisted that your tummy pic was not “disgusting” and didn’t make you look “fat” or “ugly.”
And others may judge you unfairly, being hypercritical about things you can’t even control, as if it’s your fault for choosing to be what they dislike. People like that exist in the world, and you will inevitably encounter them. It’s best to quickly identify people whose methods of judgement involve invalid criteria, and simply disregard their opinions. In order for anyone’s words to hurt you, you must first value their opinion. You shouldn’t value opinions of people who base them on invalid judgement criteria.