hi,
now a days feeling very happy…. because i am pregnant. i use to cry a lot because of my mother in law. she irritates me, scolds me, manipulates my husband, makes my husband to scold me every time. one day there was a big clash between me and both of them, in the result i got hurt physically and i thought i should divorce him. i took a break for few days…. i went to my parents for about 2 months, i have my parents support…. there i got to know that i am pregnant. my husband is very happy with it. but my mother in law want me to break up with my husband, my husband never believes me, he thinks his mother is very humble, kind and good. she never behaves good to me. i thought i can make changes in things happening in my home. i came back….. i started being polite to my mother in law, and also my husband. i stoped complaining about her to him. i started caring her, like giving her fruits, asking her for what to cook, helping her in doing her own works, talking to her better than before. watching all these things my husband started caring me and also because of his baby growing in my womb… but the problem is mother in law is not getting changed. she is the same as she was before. now, as there is no chance to tell bad things about me to her son, she is telling to neighbors, and relatives… making me bad among all of them. i hate her. donno how i can change her? she never shows concern on me, atleast now when i am pregnant. donno what to do…. now if i suddenly start arguing with her, again my husband gets rude to me. pls help me
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You all live together in the same house?
You should calmly sit your husband down and explain to him. That you want to have a stronger relationship with your mother-in-law but she has to show the same. Just true and be calm with it. It can’t be proven your fault if you are calm about everything.
Something similar happened to me, my ex would talk about my sisters and mom like dogs and then he would run to them and complain about how awefull I was and act like he was a saint. Everyone believed it was just me being my crazy self and he had my family even talking bad about me. It almost drove me nuts! So I got a little tape recorder and secretly recorded him when he was saying all that stuff about them and I got some really nasty stuff he said on it. Then let them hear it .. lolz! If your mom is saying bad stuff when he isn’t there maybe u should record it and then let him hear it to.
Tbh tho, its your husband and you are carrying his baby, he really should be taking your side more.
ya……….. i think i should try it. thank u!
i tried many times telling about his mother to him, he sometimes just listens an dont bothers, sometimes gets angry on me, that i am putting his mom down…. and sometimes, he says, “she is old, and experienced a lot, so she has rights to say any thing to u… be calm, and be nice with her, she is always correct!”
so, i stoped saying about her.
i am just waiting for her death to come….
donno how much i am wrong in thinking this way???
yes v all live together