I hate my sperm and egg donor for creating me! I wish they would be subjected to everything that they have subjected me to by breeding me. What a nightmare and an anguish they are to me. I am with adoptive home now.  I pray my breeders will suffer in hell for the lifetime of agony they’ve caused me. What makes a person feel, that they have a right to be a sperm or egg donor? Why does a person feel that they have the power to create another life? A new life which is not consenting? A new life which may know nothing but pain for all of its existence? My suffering and my suicide is their fault and responsibility entirely. God how I hate them.
It is important that people refrain from bearing children. For you have no idea and no control over the life that you are going to force someone else to live. That life might not be tolerable. You know that it is wrong. Nobody wants to admit it, but it is wrong, and destroys the life of the new individual that has been created. Do not blame your child if it grows up to despise you.
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I agree but I dont hate my parents but I did resent them for giving me a life that I hate. I could never have children knowing my pain. I wouldnt wish this on anyone however all humans (or most) have sex at some point in time. Rather by mistake or on purpose they create another person. I wish I wasn’t born but we have no say in the matter all we can do is realize we are here. I do know I have an option out though and I will use that option
I am more angry at my parents for not accepting my right to leave this world when I choose, but I doubt anyone out there understands.
If you hang in there, you may be surprised to find out how you feel about them in another 10 years or so. We’ve all been there and no one is the perfect parent.
I always wanted a family so badly, but, along with the fact that I’m 43 and have never known love, or even much like, this world isn’t a place I want to bring more people into anymore. What chance would they have when I bring home 26k a year anyway? It’s a difficult and painful thing to accept that you will never have children to raise and love. It hurts.
@ someone who cares: I’ve never known love either. Because of a genetic mishap I am much more like an animal than like a human being and have always been outcast from human society. It does hurt me to see happy families, mother, father, son and daughter…and to know that’s something I will never even begin to understand. When I was younger I remember staring at a dad pushing his daughter in a baby carriage. That BROKE my heart seeing that he treasured her and that I was never treated like that. I am glad at least I have no children who will have to carry on this legacy of agony.