First post here, not much to say, after reading some posts here my depression doesn’t seem like shit haha. I always watch this speech when I’m feeling down, hopefully it can comfort/enlighten others.
Watched it, appreciated it, recommend it, almost entirely agree… not entirely applicable to me, but somewhat. According to him, i am indeed “educated,” despite my lack of a degree.
I adjusted my “default setting,” long ago, and never believed the entire world was “about me,” despite being firmly planted and locked into my own center of consciousness, affixed to my own point of reference. “My” world, “my” experiences “revolve around” me… because i am a single individual… but i know i’m not the only fish in the sea, and i know what “this is water” means.
of course the irony is I learned from looking at the videos below that one that this particular author ended up killing himself. I sort of knew it if he was talking about adjusting his default setting that he must be a depressive too. Man it was not a nice feeling to learn that even this seemingly enlightened man ended up hanging himself. Bummer.
Perhaps he grew tired of swimming. Perhaps he grew tired of feeling too few people understand that “this is water.”
At the beginning, he says “i’m not that old fish!” But he totally was. I think he only said that to maintain connection to the “young fish” long enough for them to listen.
I also couldn’t help but feel that his “example of how NOT to think…” was actually his own default, which is why it was so vivid; he knew himself well. He knew the value of education, he knew what he was sacrificing. He knew he had done much to convey the ideas he thought were important. That rat race claims lots of lives, and ruins many others. “Day-In, Day-Out…” is the core of the issue.
In that regard, i don’t care what i do or don’t accomplish, nor do i care if anyone thinks i was a success or failure. I care how i experience “living life” each day, and i don’t want to endure a meaningless grind, spending each miserable day “enduring” or “pushing myself through it” or “telling myself this is water.”
I just want a “good enough” “Day-In, Day-Out.” When i feel that is an impossible goal, that’s when i feel i should just stop. I have to keep telling myself there’s still a chance for something worth enduring for, even if i feel quite certain there is not, or that it is very unlikely, or implausible.
I think his parting says: “it’s not worth being so miserable all the time.”
It’s still just more evidence in support of my already established perspective: those who see most clearly, seem to be the least content.
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Watched it, appreciated it, recommend it, almost entirely agree… not entirely applicable to me, but somewhat. According to him, i am indeed “educated,” despite my lack of a degree.
I adjusted my “default setting,” long ago, and never believed the entire world was “about me,” despite being firmly planted and locked into my own center of consciousness, affixed to my own point of reference. “My” world, “my” experiences “revolve around” me… because i am a single individual… but i know i’m not the only fish in the sea, and i know what “this is water” means.
I love fishing…
It calms the soul….
Till you got one on the hook, then it’s like.. “Fuck yeah boys!! Check this big mamma out!!”
…all implied!
of course the irony is I learned from looking at the videos below that one that this particular author ended up killing himself. I sort of knew it if he was talking about adjusting his default setting that he must be a depressive too. Man it was not a nice feeling to learn that even this seemingly enlightened man ended up hanging himself. Bummer.
Perhaps he grew tired of swimming. Perhaps he grew tired of feeling too few people understand that “this is water.”
At the beginning, he says “i’m not that old fish!” But he totally was. I think he only said that to maintain connection to the “young fish” long enough for them to listen.
I also couldn’t help but feel that his “example of how NOT to think…” was actually his own default, which is why it was so vivid; he knew himself well. He knew the value of education, he knew what he was sacrificing. He knew he had done much to convey the ideas he thought were important. That rat race claims lots of lives, and ruins many others. “Day-In, Day-Out…” is the core of the issue.
In that regard, i don’t care what i do or don’t accomplish, nor do i care if anyone thinks i was a success or failure. I care how i experience “living life” each day, and i don’t want to endure a meaningless grind, spending each miserable day “enduring” or “pushing myself through it” or “telling myself this is water.”
I just want a “good enough” “Day-In, Day-Out.” When i feel that is an impossible goal, that’s when i feel i should just stop. I have to keep telling myself there’s still a chance for something worth enduring for, even if i feel quite certain there is not, or that it is very unlikely, or implausible.
I think his parting says: “it’s not worth being so miserable all the time.”
It’s still just more evidence in support of my already established perspective: those who see most clearly, seem to be the least content.
Perhaps that means Truth is “bad.”