Does anyone else hate the idea of having to hire someone else to fix your own thoughts?
I just want a therapist that wonâ€™t pressure me to talk. One that wonâ€™t jump to conclusions or be so focused on â€œfixingâ€ me that I feel uncomfortable. Iâ€™m not broken, I just need someone to care. I need a therapist who will laugh with me, but who will also sympathize when I need it. Someone who is patient enough to understand that they are a stranger to me and I need to get to know them before I tell them my secrets. I need a therapist who has enough room in their heart to truly care about me above the paycheck they are receiving.
Sounds more like you need a friend who is compassionate and understanding than a random person you pay to talk with. Yes, I realise that this may be difficult but who knows.
There are good people out there, therapists included, and maybe you already have a good friend but choose not to disclose anything to them.
I really wouldn’t know, Miss.
Compassion and understanding are a rare commodity, that much is true, but through your last few posts I’ve read you are one person who deserves them most.
If you do decide to seek out a therapist, then I truly hope they are what you are looking for.