i really dont like people give them any opportunity and they will hurt u and take advantage of ur vulnerabilities trusting in people just leads to dissapointment and expecting people to do the right thing leads to even more disappointment even ur family will take whoevers side is against u they wont listen to ur argument either all they care about is what u did wrong not wat anyone else has done to u. the day i can sustain myself monetarily will b the day i leave my family all behind forever i wont write wont visit not even if theyve been hospitalized after leaving i will never ever let them cause me any more pain i will move on with my life and be happy n not ever have to think about them again. For all those of u teens and college students who have been wronged over and over by ur families do not worry one day u will escape n they will never b able to hurt u n u can live ur life b happy n never look back
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I hated my family when I was younger, even into my twenties.
All those years wasted fighting against something that would never change.
It ends up getting easier once they are no longer responsible for you and you can make it on your own, by that time it’s often too late to mend the relationships.
But I just found it was easier to forgive and forget, rather than to have to leave my own life behind.
Now things are good between us all, as long as I don’t live with them.
I feel the same way as you. I’ve gone so far as to research how to go about legally changing my name. Someday I hope to forget everything they’ve done to me so I can move on. People suck but I hope a few good people are left.
Long ago I left my family behind for a year, moving to the other side of the country. In my case, I made peace with them, but I understand some young adults have suffered abuse where a clean break is necessary. It’s good to hear that you have hope for a much brighter future without them.