Hello to all…myself ajay rathod….i am 24 year old….my parents wanted me to rank higher during school days sothat i was not allowed to play games….so i kept on it and just focussed on study…i got arranged marriage….i planned with my wife till two year just we will live life happily than will plan a baby…unfortunately i made unsafe conception with her…she became pregnant…i told her to take medicine bt she refused…i lost all my hopes to live happy life…i feel very very suicidal….
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It takes two persons, a man and a woman, to make a mistake pregnancy. Life does not always go according to some plan. Yet, you have tried to be a good son and person. There are so many avenues of freedom for you. I think that is what you seek. Where do you live? If in America, you have choices. But your wife must be considred. She has a child growing inside her. Is she willing to raise this child without you? Was it your ‘mistake’ or ‘hers?’ So many factors to consider. If she did not cause this mistake, you have a responsibility to her and your child. I understand freedom. Yet, I sense, for you, this child might not be so bad an option that you kill yourserf. Perhaps there is another way. I want for you that you find that way. If your parents are willing to take responsibility and you are willing to go away and have no rights to your child, perhaps this is the price you will pay for freedom.
I say this as a person who values freedom greatly and I have made sacrifices in my own life toward freedom. Be advised, that this can be a lonely path; but if it is truly what you desire, it can be a wondrous path.
Please try to work this out for the best of all, yet remain true to yourself. Who knows? You might actually love this child.