if u cry a day long and laugh a minute: u laugh in a way it worth of one day cry
if u cry a min and laugh a day: u laugh in a way it worth of one min cry
begger:if a guy donated him a grand
obama: if he received noble prize
sp-adicts(fool or genius): if he promoted to ceo/girl proposed him/win 2milon deal..
happiness in above all cases is same. those are happy moments not successful moments
success must be standardized as reaching that top 10% of ppl which ever career path you choose (please eliminate job doers: slaves don’t worth a human life)
how many of you think you are successful here?
If any one thinking on how to pursuit happiness, isn’t he fool?
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I couldn’t disagree with you more. Happiness is not the same for everyone. There is a direct correlation between chemical reactions in the brain and happiness. Some do not have enough of those chemicals and/or the receptors to process them or the synapses to get them where they need to go.
So to say that “Happiness is same for every human being on this planet” irrespective of ( fill in the blank here__________) is like saying “Our blood type is the same for every human being on this planet irrespective of…
please see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOAgplgTxfc&feature=youtube_gdata_player
I think what you are trying to get at is Milton’s beautifully put phrase ” : ‘The mind is its own place, and in itself can make a heaven of hell, a hell of heaven.” Which is true! But I dont understand your last question. I dont mean to be mean but is english your first language?
i need to express my “different” feelings in your post.
1.you say that success(whether different or not) can buy people happiness.but the actual scenario here is that,success and happiness are 2 different things.for example……some one hear a joke and laugh(feel happy),does that means he got successfull,just because he hear a joke and laugh?and by this simple but meaningfull example you can see that success and happiness are two totally different things.
2.does success buy happiness?(continued)
First let’s define success in your post…for you, success is money,for you success is noble prize….et cetra.but does people’s that have or won those things,are really happy?because i heard lot’s of people who killed themselves,even if they got those things.for the second time your argument is invalid.
3.so by my two simple,none complicated, but yet effective reasonings your argument that “happiness is the same for all human being despite success” is null.cause in this argument,the meaning of happiness is “only bounded by success”.
4.what is happiness…?
Happiness simply can be expressed as,a reward from your mind……,when you accomplish a task “which is essential for your survival”.whether you insult someone and build your confidence(as confidence is essential for your survival),whether you got money to buy yourself food(essential….:) ),whether you hear a joke, that will ease your mind “pain”,,,etc.
5.most the guys here on sp including me,come her just to let out what is in our head.and to “chat” at the same time.the amazing thing is we get far from the social world, so that we can avoid mean peoples just like you,even for a little “partitioned day”.but you put your mean behavior here by saying…..”sp addicts(genius or fool)”.imo…nobody is sp “addict” here.for me sp is a home that i will spend “partition of my day”,by not meet peoples like you.and i don’t think that will make me addict(cause i am just here to find a pure friend,who can listen and understand).but here you are labeling someone fool,and the other one genius.their is nobody here who is fool,everybody is just expressing their idea’s.and their is nobody genius here,cause if he was genius,he could have been solving his problems.instead of wasting his time here.(yes! For a “genius” who spend most of his time here,then his time is a waste).
*Death to mean people*.
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