I’m confused. I’m confused about what actually is classed as bullying. Because I’m being called things everyday at school by the only two people who I would considered my ‘friends’. ‘*****’ ‘Stupid’ ‘Annoying’ ‘Mistake’ ‘Two-faced’ ‘Horrible’ ‘Pathetic’ ‘Freak’ ‘Whore’ ‘Psycho’ They even make fun of my surname, changing it from Howe to ‘Hoe’, and writing it on everything – even my school work. And also one of them used to hit and kick me, though they haven’t done it for a couple months. And I’ve read online that being called things everyday is considered bullying, but I was sure it wasn’t. Now I just don’t know. Is it bullying, or just them being mean?
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definately bullying.
report it to your teachers until someone listens.
tell your parents too, even the police if you have to.
i just wanna said that you should get rid that type of ‘FRIENDS’ as soon as possible. i know you can’t handle all by yourself because i have experienced it by MY OWN BEST FRIEND. Well, this is the true story i swear i never tell lies here. I was bullied and beaten and treated like a slave by my own FRIENDS.. i mean.. the leader of the bullying-me-mission is MY OWN BEST FRIEND. She thought that was a joke, but for me that was really really horrible. she called me lame and so on if i won’t followed her instruction. Soon, my true friends which at first was her sidekicks, finally realized that she was a total whore and a badass then they helped me by treated her the way she treated me before and ignored her. That was awesome and wonderful eventhough i felt a little sorry for her at that time. but trust me, i never feeling regretted by dumped her and move on 🙂 if you got that type of friends, you better removed them earlier before the scar in your heart will become huge and worse 🙂
Yeah that’s bullying. You’re going to have to become cool and confident or frighten the life out of them. Predators always go for the most vulnerable prey. Don’t take the easy way because you’ll lose in the end. Stand up to them and show no fear.
Are those the best insults they could come up with? Check out 212121’s post for ammunition to throw back at them. My particular favourite is when 212121 calls WIG ‘dickless wonder of the seven universes’. Classic. Some other posters have since chimed in with their own creative language. If you need any help to solve this problem let us know.
so…you repeat the insult ?
Going back at them, one vs many, isn’t a good idea in my opinion. I used to do that and it only makes you feel worse, especially when you notice that no one will support your side.
Ignoring it also won’t help since it will just strengthen them in their attempts to hurt you.
Of course it is best to talk to parents, teachers, etc. In most school there is someone responsible for stuff like that.
But more importantly find REAL friends. I was an idiot and I sticked with the bullyiers because I thought they were ‘cool’. I regret nothing more than this. Find good friends, now, and get rid of your fake friends. If you have support by your real friends you will eventually stop caring about the bulliers and they will leave you (if they cant hurt you it is no fun).
I will repeat myself: Find good friends. If you don’t you will end up socially isolated and depressed – just like what I am atm.
Mang, why wasn’t there someone for me when I was young to tell me the same?