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by empty22
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What’s better being distance from everyone? Or everyone being distance from you? I don’t know why I feel like people are staying a distance away from me… I like to be alone but why do I feel so alone? Am I really affecting people around me? Or am I’m just over thinking it? What should I do? Stay a distance from them?

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9 comments

Wifeisgone 12/3/2013 - 9:30 pm

maybe you havent given them reason to be closer to you.

are they “your type”?

I know if I was around a certain type of people, I would be “distant” from them.

empty22 12/3/2013 - 9:42 pm

I have gave them reason,their my friends. Lately one friend has been through my tough times with me and no matter how much she tell me that she cares about me.she doesn’t understand that what I’m going through is hard… We argue about this subject and I feels as if she had enough with me. And now I just feel horrible because I let someone in my life go…someone that has brought me so far in life..that give me hope…now I have no hope and just waiting for my day to come…I don’t know what to do anymore…

sumsum12 12/3/2013 - 10:25 pm

Hi, do not distant yourself from people. Maybe dont tell them as much. I recently lost my best friend because she couldnt take my issues anymore.

empty22 12/4/2013 - 12:57 am

@ sumsum12 man, im sorry to hear that.. I feel like im going to lose my best friend too, well it feels like I already did…

outrageous 12/4/2013 - 8:11 am

Being distant from everyone is the best choice you could ever make and you may feel alone because everyone is distant from you right now. So, first of all, make them understand your issues and don’t expect them to understand them themselves and then you can distant yourself from everyone not feeling alone.

sumsum12 12/4/2013 - 10:49 am

Hi, the irony is that I listened to her problems, but I guess she just could not take mine anymore. I think distancing yourself for awhile is ok. But he my particular case..it lead to isolation, longterm…I didnt even realize it til many years later,by then my mind, depression, was too bad. The funny thing is that I didnt like or participate in social media…isnt this social media? lol

cagedtiger 12/4/2013 - 11:28 am

Sumsum12 me too. I’m really isolating myself to the point where I hardly leave the house or even see my friends anymore. It’s getting worse every day.

sumsum12 12/4/2013 - 11:40 am

I think when we do that, maybe just maybe…we dont realize it. It may be a harsh word, but in my case it was dangerous. It lead to so much more. I wish I had all the friends that I had before. Please…start leaving the house and talking to people, it really is what life is all about. It is what keeps us alive!!!

empty22 12/4/2013 - 6:40 pm

@ outrageous yeah I know what you mean but I just feel bad,I don’t know why!

@sumsum12 me too,I don’t do social media,it make me depressed.lol and yes I think this is a social media.lol but is ok!

@cagedtiger yeah sunsum12 is right.

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