Hi, it’s me again.. I’ve been feeling a little bit better now.. I don’t go to my classes anymore. I think i’m gonna start smoking. But i don’t cry EVERY night anymore. Today i got the guts to snapchat my ex.. and it wasn’t a very good idea.. She sent a picture where it stood “Aww!<3 you know i want to cutie!<3<3” and then she sent another one “Oh, sorry! Wrong person..” and That’s when i started crying like fuck and threw my Phone stonehard into the wall.. iIsleep 2 hours every night and i can’t stop thinking of her.. Please tell me what to do! I really feel like shit..
– Anton
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Please don’t start smoking cigarettes! They are bad for you and make you stink!
I think shes fucking with you because she knows you like her still,like putty in her hands.I would say she still has feelings for you because why would you even wast energy you know? Really who snapchats the wrong person lol
and please go to your classes for me XD
Yep that’s the last thing were worried about. stinking.
Hi Anton… In your first post, you mentioned that you were 13. The reason I say that is because it’s an important part of what you might want to do. Perhaps the best idea is for you to go to your classes… talk to people… make friends slowly but surely… and go from there. If you don’t go to classes. you might have a difficult future ahead. The more education you have in life, statistics show you’ll have a better job, more pay, etc. I hate to say it, but money is important in life. Don’t let a breakup at 13 distract you forever. You communicate very well… and you come across as intelligent… Use those abilities and you’ll get far.
Anton you’ve experienced something that most all of us experience at some point when we reach dating age. Your first heartbreak. Yeah it hurts, a lot… I know. I remember mine. But you’re young Anton. You’re only 13. You will find many other girls. Girls even better than that one. And honestly it may have a good thing that you did break up because it sounds like she’s headed down a bad path going after guys who drink and smoke. She doesn’t sound worthy of you in my opinion. So forget about her and snap back to reality. I can promise you that if you keep going to class and stay focused on trying to keep your life moving in the right direction you will find another girl soon enough. And do me a favor… Please don’t start smoking. It’s an unhealthy and expensive habit. Why would you want to attract the type of girl who likes that anyway? You may think it’s cool and lot of people may tell you it’s cool as well but I will tell you this. Almost every beautiful, motivated and kindhearted girl I know does not smoke and probably wouldn’t appreciate a guy who did.
Now Anton, stay strong and let it go. That which doesn’t kill you can only make you stronger. If you overcome this pain you will be far stronger than you’ve ever been. You might just scare yourself with how strong you become.