One Day

It’s not about being seen “as perfect.”

No one who is unaware of your flaws, is worthy of forming a valid highly favorable opinion of you.

Instead, it’s about finding someone who knows all your flaws, and still thinks of you favorably enough to prioritize you as the person with whom they most wish to spend their time.

Or in simpler terms: someone who knows your flaws, but likes you anyway. (ideally, this should be someone you feel similarly about)

Also: you can’t say “never say never,” because you’re saying never, while saying it.

Seldom say never; sometimes “never” is the right word.

Like… i’m “never” going to be black, or female, or theist. I’m “never” going to have my own house and family before i’m 30 (because i’m already 30+, and the past is immutable).

It’s kinda like “there is always an exception.” That’s actually not true. Sometimes there isn’t an exception… which is why i took the liberty of appending an extra piece to that adage, making it more true: “there is always an exception; even to this rule.” (because that means, when there isn’t an exception, the rule accounts for it, by saying there can be an exception to the exception rule)

Anyway… calm down, you’re only 13. You haven’t even lived yet.