I don’t see why we should be classifying people who are clearly hurt and suffering as “virgins” or “whores.” Neither do I see any good in exalting virgins or demonizing prostitutes. If you are depressed and/or suicidal, please find a way to deal with that self-hatred so you can make a **clear-headed** decision about how (or whether) to continue your life. If you are neither depressed nor suicidal, then please just leave this site. Neither you nor we have any benefit from such hate.
*incidentally if, like your username suggests, you are addicted to something (be it a substance or activity), then perhaps you can think about whether it’s possible you are self-medicating to escape some form of pain or fear of pain (whether from the past or present). It’s not easy but if you deal with that pain, you win the game. No more depression or wanting to die. I am coming to learn there are many books and websites out there that can help with this. I plan to post about some of those websites soon.
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I don’t see why we should be classifying people who are clearly hurt and suffering as “virgins” or “whores.” Neither do I see any good in exalting virgins or demonizing prostitutes. If you are depressed and/or suicidal, please find a way to deal with that self-hatred so you can make a **clear-headed** decision about how (or whether) to continue your life. If you are neither depressed nor suicidal, then please just leave this site. Neither you nor we have any benefit from such hate.
*incidentally if, like your username suggests, you are addicted to something (be it a substance or activity), then perhaps you can think about whether it’s possible you are self-medicating to escape some form of pain or fear of pain (whether from the past or present). It’s not easy but if you deal with that pain, you win the game. No more depression or wanting to die. I am coming to learn there are many books and websites out there that can help with this. I plan to post about some of those websites soon.