You’ve found a small answer. Now time to look for a bigger one. No one person can fill a void in someone else for long without becoming a void themselves.
You’ve found a piece of the puzzle… but, as vedura said, no single person can fill the void. Your life consists of various components… and many people will enter and exit your world. Make a plan… Grow yourself academically, professionally, spiritually (if you have an interest), etc. One of these days, somebody might walk into your world and stick around for a while… and it might (not) be the person you were thinking of.
more like lost an answer or “the” missing piece of the puzzle.
I’m sure that’s how it feels, based on casper’s prior posts.
The lack of overcoming the impact of that one special person’s absence, will most likely hinder or even prevent you from finding any semblance of a suitable replacement.
Sometimes, you gotta break through the chains, clevername. Being dependent on one person can be a difficult road to navigate… Clearly, you have a valid point… Finding a suitable replacement could be hindered. None-the-less, it remains important.
sometimes, the ties that bind cannot be broken. Being bound in such a way will tear out parts you didn’t know you even had, when they go. The longer you spend unable to overcome those impacts, that devastation, the more your body, and hence, your mind, will deteriorate… which then makes it even less likely and more difficult to find anything comparable with anyone else.
Some people can’t get over it.
I used to think that phrase “don’t know what you got ’til it’s gone” was about appreciating other people… but really, it’s the parts of yourself you don’t even know you have, or didn’t know you needed, until someone else rips them out of you, and makes it impossible for you to live, because you no longer have that part of you you never knew you had, until it was gone.
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You’ve found a small answer. Now time to look for a bigger one. No one person can fill a void in someone else for long without becoming a void themselves.
You’ve found a piece of the puzzle… but, as vedura said, no single person can fill the void. Your life consists of various components… and many people will enter and exit your world. Make a plan… Grow yourself academically, professionally, spiritually (if you have an interest), etc. One of these days, somebody might walk into your world and stick around for a while… and it might (not) be the person you were thinking of.
more like lost an answer or “the” missing piece of the puzzle.
I’m sure that’s how it feels, based on casper’s prior posts.
The lack of overcoming the impact of that one special person’s absence, will most likely hinder or even prevent you from finding any semblance of a suitable replacement.
It’s recursive.
Sometimes, you gotta break through the chains, clevername. Being dependent on one person can be a difficult road to navigate… Clearly, you have a valid point… Finding a suitable replacement could be hindered. None-the-less, it remains important.
sometimes, the ties that bind cannot be broken. Being bound in such a way will tear out parts you didn’t know you even had, when they go. The longer you spend unable to overcome those impacts, that devastation, the more your body, and hence, your mind, will deteriorate… which then makes it even less likely and more difficult to find anything comparable with anyone else.
Some people can’t get over it.
I used to think that phrase “don’t know what you got ’til it’s gone” was about appreciating other people… but really, it’s the parts of yourself you don’t even know you have, or didn’t know you needed, until someone else rips them out of you, and makes it impossible for you to live, because you no longer have that part of you you never knew you had, until it was gone.