you are not a failure! if your girlfriend cared about you she would support and care for you, not say youre a failure! love is worth the pain it costs to search for!
Thanks lifeisover. If my girlfriend leaves, i cant find another one. i know this. my health and mental problems plague me. The only reason i continue on is because im afraid of hell or nothingness. I want to be in heaven right now. or just away fro this world. i no longer trust noone in my life,
You will find someone better if she does leave you. She wasn’t the right one if she can’t encourage and lift you up in your time of need, sweetie, so please don’t base a decision like this on one person.
It is hard when you have issues because we automatically think no one will except us. I feel that way myself at times. I think it is just something we think but is not necessarily the truth.
Well. I am not over them as of yet and it still hurts a great deal but as time goes on the pain has eased a little.
New meds are helping also. Why do u think your gf might leave. Is it just how you are thinking or something else ?
i thought i would be wealthy and overcome my disability….and now i having complications just holding down a job. plus, my physical health has deteriorated. but im prepared to say i may have pessimistic viewpoints on this.
Im sorry š . Holding down a job with so much on your plate must be hard. I envy you that you do have a job. I cannot remember the last time I worked It has been so long. I am not very optimistic at this time about my future but still have some hopes things will work out.
IĀ“m very sorry, I truly am. I just have to ask you one thing, if you have just the slightest thought that you think maybe ending yourself is not a solution then I think you should reconsider. Nonetheless, I wish you all the best.
No one truly knows what you are feeling but yourself. Try to find that drive to keep you going. I don’t know your religion so I’m not going to inject mine into this but hang in there. There is no definite end to a relationship. Time will tell if hearts mend.
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hey. thank you for responding. im afraid i dont have much to talk about. my life is in bad shape. only thing keeping me going is my girlfriend.
you are not a failure! if your girlfriend cared about you she would support and care for you, not say youre a failure! love is worth the pain it costs to search for!
My life is messed up to so I do understand. Just had someone walk out my life. Thought it would be the end of me but I slowly getting over it.
Thanks lifeisover. If my girlfriend leaves, i cant find another one. i know this. my health and mental problems plague me. The only reason i continue on is because im afraid of hell or nothingness. I want to be in heaven right now. or just away fro this world. i no longer trust noone in my life,
You will find someone better if she does leave you. She wasn’t the right one if she can’t encourage and lift you up in your time of need, sweetie, so please don’t base a decision like this on one person.
thank you so much cagedtiger. ill try to hang on.
It is hard when you have issues because we automatically think no one will except us. I feel that way myself at times. I think it is just something we think but is not necessarily the truth.
ur right lifeisover. how did u get over losing ur special someone?
Well. I am not over them as of yet and it still hurts a great deal but as time goes on the pain has eased a little.
New meds are helping also. Why do u think your gf might leave. Is it just how you are thinking or something else ?
i thought i would be wealthy and overcome my disability….and now i having complications just holding down a job. plus, my physical health has deteriorated. but im prepared to say i may have pessimistic viewpoints on this.
Im sorry š . Holding down a job with so much on your plate must be hard. I envy you that you do have a job. I cannot remember the last time I worked It has been so long. I am not very optimistic at this time about my future but still have some hopes things will work out.
IĀ“m very sorry, I truly am. I just have to ask you one thing, if you have just the slightest thought that you think maybe ending yourself is not a solution then I think you should reconsider. Nonetheless, I wish you all the best.
No one truly knows what you are feeling but yourself. Try to find that drive to keep you going. I don’t know your religion so I’m not going to inject mine into this but hang in there. There is no definite end to a relationship. Time will tell if hearts mend.