For me the only thing I can see to do is to keep going and just hope and pray and believe that things get better down the line. But you are right. When the future looks bleak and there seems to be no end to misery in sight its hard to go on. You are right about that. Another thing I try to do to keep myself going is to take a look at what other human beings have been through that are much more worse then my position and to try and get relief that At least I dont have it that bad. No matter how bad we have it there are others who have it worse. So I feel its important to count our blessings no matter how few they may seem.
personally i find looking at the future to be a big part of the problem, as much as looking into the past. so what if right now ten years from now looks bad? 1. just because it looks bad to you now, dosnt mean it will turn out bad, it is the nature of things to change, nothing stays the same, even how we perceive our future, after all we are not fortune tellers, we cannot be right about the future so to worry over it is a waste of energy and 2. tomorrow morning you could be hit by a bus, which means all this worrying about ten years from now may in fact be an utter waste of time as you may not even be alive. Life has to be more about living in the moment, seeing something you want to do and just doing it because you want to see what its like go do it. create memories not problems bro, the world has enough problems without listening to the voice in our head that creates more
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For me the only thing I can see to do is to keep going and just hope and pray and believe that things get better down the line. But you are right. When the future looks bleak and there seems to be no end to misery in sight its hard to go on. You are right about that. Another thing I try to do to keep myself going is to take a look at what other human beings have been through that are much more worse then my position and to try and get relief that At least I dont have it that bad. No matter how bad we have it there are others who have it worse. So I feel its important to count our blessings no matter how few they may seem.
Yeah I totally get what your saying I no people have worst lives then mine it’s just dealing with it is the problem
Wow, good find.
personally i find looking at the future to be a big part of the problem, as much as looking into the past. so what if right now ten years from now looks bad? 1. just because it looks bad to you now, dosnt mean it will turn out bad, it is the nature of things to change, nothing stays the same, even how we perceive our future, after all we are not fortune tellers, we cannot be right about the future so to worry over it is a waste of energy and 2. tomorrow morning you could be hit by a bus, which means all this worrying about ten years from now may in fact be an utter waste of time as you may not even be alive. Life has to be more about living in the moment, seeing something you want to do and just doing it because you want to see what its like go do it. create memories not problems bro, the world has enough problems without listening to the voice in our head that creates more
So true procel it really is