It is now past the deadline I set for a person to start talking to me again, I now know I will probably never speak to them again. Meh oh well…. Still worried about driving the other one away a bit further yesterday, but they should stay. There is one that I don’t really fear leaving as they are also horrible at meeting people, so that’s good I guess…. Broken friends are nice I guess, they’ll never leave you ^_^ (that sounds horrible really)
There are a few people in some of my classes I sort of want to try to develop a relationship with outside of class, as they seem interesting and like people I would get along with, I’m not sure exactly how to do this though, as I feel like I’m a creepy person in general…. One of them I speak to often after class while walking to my next class, there is another group I attempt this with too…. Sometimes asking about how their pets are doing and last week talked a bit about painting (their favourite medium, and I was surprised that it is just so relaxing, I love it), and the other I simply constantly ask if they started doing heroin yet. These don’t seem that successful, as I still don’t speak to them often when I see them outside of class, and at the end of this quarter they will no longer have classes with me (has been a 2 year seris of class) I started stalking a few on facebook, and brought that up to one of them…. they seemed a bit uncomfortable by that….
So any ideas for approaches for speaking to people that are probably actually horrified of you?
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As horrible as it may sound, it is common thing you know. I for one, find broken people lovely. They know the dark sides, they have experienced a lot.
I can’t advice on making relationships with people, I am not good at it. Don’t have many myself, it’s mostly me lying around in my room
yeah I like broken people too, they do tend to be very interesting…. And I’m a little bit broken so generally we can get along, also this one in particular would be rather hard to chase off which is a comforting though ^_^ (I probably could if I really wanted to, but probably not by mistake)
I wouldn’t tell them that you’re Internet “stalking them”. I would probably start a conversation about something you like, or something you or the other person is doing. And maybe don’t bring up drugs. Other than that, the other stuff doesn’t seem uncomfortable
okay, and actually asking that person if she started doing heroin yet makes sense in context…. In the past I had had a dream about her being a Heroin addict and mentioned it to her…. Now I guess that’s sort of a running joke now, but she’s also the same person who seemed a bit creeped out when I mentioned the “facebook stalking” -_-
but thanks for the advice ^_^ I hope to grab at least one of them while I still can 😀
Who else is broken here?
I’m broken I’m broken