Everytime I think I find some happiness in life it gets taken away from me. There are many examples in my life but the most recent case of that is with my fiancee. I knew she was different when she kissed me. I fell in love with her and despite my looks and mental problems she loved me. I recently found out she is talking to someone else (The person doesnt even want to be with her.). Once I confronted her she said she was confused. We agreed to be friends for now. All this has braught up bad memories of being unwanted. I dont really know what to do and it’s got me in a bad way mentally.
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Many of us feel unloved, unvalued, like no one cares. It’s a horrible lonely painful feeling that destroys self worth and the will to live.
Like I need to tell you that.
But you are not alone. Those of us with mental problems, as you describe them, do have trouble in the world at large. Some of us have gifts yet to be discovered or not appreciated by others.
This makes for a difficult life.
I have never married or had children. I live with two cats and a dog. And, in the end, it’s not such a bad life at all. I can do what I want when I want and how I want. Yet, when I face difficulties, I need supportive friends. Building that circle of supportive friends helps greatly.
Many of us are taught romantic fantasies that are not attainable in the end. Most happy couples have common goals and respect. The romance waxes and wanes.
Actually, I’ve had many ask me how I escaped the alluring trap of marriage.
Take time to figure it out for YOU, a unique person who deserves to be the best you can be.
I wish you well.
Vedura