My mom always told me that family is the only thing that will actually be there for you. My dad always told me that everybody lies about love. Some weeks ago my mom grabbed my arms and spoke gently : “Don´t expect love from us because you will never get it”.
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Your father and mother are both liars. They may be right about the fact that you’ll never get love from them. Sometimes, that is an unfortunate reality of life for many people.
But they’re wrong about family being the only people who will ever be there for you, and they’re wrong that everybody lies about love.
You parents sound like abusers. These are classic abuse tactics.
The truth is, love is real, and you can find it in other people. The truth is, family is just blood. Family doesn’t have to mean anything. The only people that should matter in your life are the people that you choose to let be a part of it. You’re under no moral obligation to be your family’s captive. And frankly, they probably don’t deserve you.
Hey, I’ve heard similar stuff from my parents before. Small world. :p
I don’t have any magic words to fix everything, but I’m here for you if you ever need to talk or rant or anything.
Maybe just a few words can do magic
I try to say nice things to people when I can, just in case they need to hear them, but I never know if it actually helps them get through the day or not. I’d say something kind and encouraging about you here, but I don’t know you well enough to say anything specific, and I hate the vague and impersonal things that you see in greeting cards and high school yearbooks.
And I really appreciate de gesture.
Sounds like your parents have issues and hurting yourself over their way of raising you in my opinion is not fair for you. Its tough but sometimes your own family can be bad role.model unfortunately.you will find love and make new friends,join activities,do something new to keep your mind fresh and busy.
Wow, your mom is a real charmer
That really sucks. Your family should at least be on side at times like this. You shouldn’t be hearing things like this at this dark time you are going through
Well love is not something you get or do, love is something you feel. Yeah it sucks when you feel something for someone and they don’t reciprocate the same feelings, but that’s okay. It’s just feelings and they don’t really matter anyway.
Jesus Christ that’s harsh.