I am sorry to hear that things are like this for you. But can truly relate. for years of my life I was miserable and fungicidal during a lot of that time and yes its rough. So I do know what its like to get to the point where life is so painful that you just want it to end. But suicide is not always the best answer for our problems. What is going on in your life that is making you so miserable?
is it just the loneliness or are their other issues? If you can try to talk about what is bothering you and maybe you can get help and come to a place where life will get better for you
I am strongly on the first 3 list very I’m sorry that you feel this way but your not alone lately I’ve been calm about since I might actually go through with it
Sorry to hear you’re so upset. I know sometimes words don’t make a difference when it comes to how you feel, but if you think things through rationally you’ll realize things really aren’t so bad. If you have a roof over your head, a decent income, etc then you’re doing ok.
Think of the poor souls literally living on the streets right now in the freezing cold, no one to care for them, no home, nothing. Just trying to put things in context to help you realize it could always be worse.
As for being lonely, many of us have been or are there. There was a time I was really upset that I was single, but then I looked at the bigger picture and realized financially I wasn’t ready to date anyone and relationships can create very serious problems as well that can hugely impact your life.
So I realized I’m really a lot better off being single for now-I don’t have that extra emotional baggage to deal with and I can focus on advancing my financial position. Once I reach that better level (and I have little doubt I will), then I’ll have the time and status to resume dating again.
As for being alone because of friends/family, try to remember why those people are no longer in your life. In my case it was inevitable-I got really sick of the behavior of certain people that I had no choice but to let them go. So while I have fewer contacts, I don’t have any bullshit or drama to deal with from the losers I used to know.
Sometimes other people cut you off, in which case there’s nothing you can do about it but to move on and look to build new relationships. And while you’re here on this site, you’re never really alone. You’re with people who are in a very similar boat as you. Yes it’s not the same as having a living, breathing person in your presence but it’s still better than nothing at all.
Merry Christmas to you and everyone else who reads this! 🙂
I should add nowadays people make new friendships/contacts by using Skype. So if someone’s in a similar position as yourself it might be worth speaking with them live via Skype or other app.
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Hello EmptyPluto
Hey, welcome to SP!
I’d be more than happy to show you around the place. Just ignore the pitch- black corridors and random noises.
I am sorry to hear that things are like this for you. But can truly relate. for years of my life I was miserable and fungicidal during a lot of that time and yes its rough. So I do know what its like to get to the point where life is so painful that you just want it to end. But suicide is not always the best answer for our problems. What is going on in your life that is making you so miserable?
is it just the loneliness or are their other issues? If you can try to talk about what is bothering you and maybe you can get help and come to a place where life will get better for you
I am strongly on the first 3 list very I’m sorry that you feel this way but your not alone lately I’ve been calm about since I might actually go through with it
I’m all alone too. Hey, at least we’re together in our misery. Merry christmas!
Hey if you wanna talk you can email me kamelot737@yahoo.com
Sorry to hear you’re so upset. I know sometimes words don’t make a difference when it comes to how you feel, but if you think things through rationally you’ll realize things really aren’t so bad. If you have a roof over your head, a decent income, etc then you’re doing ok.
Think of the poor souls literally living on the streets right now in the freezing cold, no one to care for them, no home, nothing. Just trying to put things in context to help you realize it could always be worse.
As for being lonely, many of us have been or are there. There was a time I was really upset that I was single, but then I looked at the bigger picture and realized financially I wasn’t ready to date anyone and relationships can create very serious problems as well that can hugely impact your life.
So I realized I’m really a lot better off being single for now-I don’t have that extra emotional baggage to deal with and I can focus on advancing my financial position. Once I reach that better level (and I have little doubt I will), then I’ll have the time and status to resume dating again.
As for being alone because of friends/family, try to remember why those people are no longer in your life. In my case it was inevitable-I got really sick of the behavior of certain people that I had no choice but to let them go. So while I have fewer contacts, I don’t have any bullshit or drama to deal with from the losers I used to know.
Sometimes other people cut you off, in which case there’s nothing you can do about it but to move on and look to build new relationships. And while you’re here on this site, you’re never really alone. You’re with people who are in a very similar boat as you. Yes it’s not the same as having a living, breathing person in your presence but it’s still better than nothing at all.
Merry Christmas to you and everyone else who reads this! 🙂
I should add nowadays people make new friendships/contacts by using Skype. So if someone’s in a similar position as yourself it might be worth speaking with them live via Skype or other app.