What kind of sick person sexually abuses their son?
Sexual abuse is hardly mentioned at all when peer-to-peer talk of the importance of rape. They only talk about the teenage girls getting raped…. How many have you have had a bad sexual experience?
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I have never been ‘raped’ but I was date ‘raped’ before my friend at the time pulled him off me and got me out of there.. Way to lose virginity.. Before that I was abused by my cousin when my Mum sent me to live with my Aunt. It wasn’t severe but it was an experience that has affected me all this time. I could not even bring myself to comprehend what you’ve been through and I’m so sorry.
I’m sorry about what your cousin did. That sounds terrible. And the date rape, did it scare you?
It scared me afterwards for sure. At the time when it was happening I wasn’t conscious so I wasn’t aware of it my last image before I blacked out was him pulling his trouser zip down.
For a few days after he tormented, harassed and made fun of me down the phone it was like I couldn’t escape him and what happened.
Does it still bother you?
It used to. It doesn’t so much now O guess I hadn’t thought about it for a while up until now I learned to block it out.. More like it just adds to everything else that’s fucked me up/ hurt me so its all one big massive demon made up individual ones if that makes sense. I call it my shit sundae. It never melts or runs out, just keeps getting bigger.
How do you cope?
I cut. People call me Fucking stupid and “emo” or a ****** when they find out, so I wear a jacket all the time. Two years ago my only reason to live died, and now I’m holding on to nothing, always empty… And when I go to long without feeling, it overflows and I break down. When I cut, it puts me in control–let’s me feel when I want to, and numb when I don’t.
I cut too. You’re certainly not alone here. I’m sorry for your pain and your loss. Fuck people; they are ignorant they simply cannot or will not understand. Some of my scars are so large and so many there’s just no point in trying to hide them but you can’t always- I over heat, I used to try but I don’t bother any more. It used to get to me when random people would stop me in the street demanding answers as if I owed them an explanation, I dont get asked so much any more but I still notice looks some times. Just the other day some guy I walk past looked straight at me in the face (my scars were hidden) and gave me a repulsed look and uttered “Euuuurgh” under his breath just because I have facial piercings. I mean, I know there not to everyone’s taste but seriously?! I would never be that rude just because I didnt like the way someone looked. Then Again, I dont really care how people look I dont think its really important. Anyway, what I’m trying to say, is you hold up that chin of yours as high as you can and don’t you care one bit. And if people give you shit be the better person. Unless you have something really intelligent and good to say then you give em shit- Give em hell! Confuse the fuck out of them fuckers!!
Thank you. I appreciate it, I’m sorry people judged you ):
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These are some really strong comments thank you very much I’m in the same boat not sexually abused I was just abused. I have some scars from my cuts. I don’t wear piercings but I actually think there hot. Everyone has s reason for everything and most people who judge follow a fuckin selfish pride
i have. this year on my birthday i was walking down a busy street. he didnt rape me, but he sexually harassed me. i reported the incident to the police and now hes in jail. the best thing you can do is tell someone about it. talk about it. bring attention to the topic because its something that does need to be talked about more.
this year one of my close friends was taking the train home one day in the summer and a man drugged her and raped her right on the train. she was too scared to tell anyone but a few friends. i wish she reported it because i strongly believe no one should get away with that sort of thing. stay strong love
It is really hard for someone to talk about that. It’s been 13 years since he did that to me and I still don’t talk to anyone about it. Luckily this place is essentially anonymous.
It’s understandable that you wouldn’t want to talk about it, no matter how much time has gone by, I sincerely believe no one should get away with being inhumane. I’m sorry it happened to you, I hope you find the strength to tell someone.
Thanks