I’m a Lesbian, i’m 5’7, i’m not skinny i’m curvy and over here where i live curvy is not that attractive, thin perky skinny is, and because of my aspects i’m very sexualized @ one point in my life i sexualized myself and took advantage of it but i gave in(wish i hadn’t). I’ve had my ups and downs, been called some pretty ugly things because of it, but i’d like to help anyone who want it, i been through more than i can type so ask me whatever and im sure i can help in some small or big way!
I’m here to ask about what you been called and how it’s affected you!
Whether its:
Whore!
Dyke!
Fag!
Slut!
Ext!
other non tasteful things!
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Oh gee, just today I was called a fat pig and a ****. I am 5’4″ and over 200 lb. I am fat and that seems to mean I am worth nothing in anyone’s eyes. I am to be stepped on, insulted and treated with complete disdain. The problem is that I don’t really disagree with them. I am fat, I am a pig, I am ugly and old, and have no redeeming attributes. It hurts, but really I can’t disagree with anything that people call me. It’s probably all true. Every day I try to grow the skin a little thicker and keep to myself just a little more. Someday maybe it won’t hurt and I can just ignore anything they might say… someday.
You know what so what, okay who cares they’re just insecure assholes who don’t have nothin better to do but hate on others! Your true beauty to me in within if you amazing beautiful on the inside itll sure as hell show on the outside and that’s attractive…ugly ppl are the ugly souls!
I’m sorry people are so rude. You are still a human being and you DO have redeeming qualities and attributes… we all do. They’re not always physical ones though. Keep that in mind. 😉
I’m 6’0″ weight 190lb I work out and still get judged by a lot of miserable hating peace of shits anyways these are the names I remembered being called
CUTE FOR NO REASON(Pisses me off)
LOSER
Retarded
Lip Quiver
Rusty
Low life
Nobody
Fag, homo and gay
Selfish & Lazy
Lonely Fuck
Cartoon anime weirdo
They’re just jealous wishing they had your blue eyes Sadlife. 😉
<3 thank you jadedjewel still doesn't explain why I never had a girlfriend in my 26 years hahaha it's time I laugh about it in my sleep zzzzzzzz anyways your awesome jadedjewel
She’ll probably show up when you least expect it.
Man jadedjewel your a true person and seems to me she already said what i was going to say!
I work in an industry where people feel free to tell you their worst hard luck stories and be hateful and utterly abusive. But they don’t know me. They assume they know me, because people stereotype. They don’t know me at all.
Some guy, who obviously hates women, called in to speak with a male co-worker of mine.The gentleman with whom he wanted to speak with was not in. When I attempted to assist him he called me (and I am not exaggerating) was:
“You Big, Fat, Ugly, *****, F*ck, C*nt, Whore!”
It really was a hateful verbal assault. I felt I should report it to my employer, which was difficult because I believe in maintaining a professional demeanor which would naturally prohibit repeating such vulgarities. Nonetheless, feeling the incident should be reported, I went into my boss and apologized in advance for the indecent language I was about to use. He was mortified that anyone would call me that. That is, until I pounded on his desk and shouted, “I am NOT a WHORE!”.
Im sorry you had to deal with that rediculas bull shit! Whether you are those things are not…you always half to think man his/her life must really suck ass to be callin me these names! Little secret the biggest f*ck you, you could give someone is a smile!! try it sometime!!
Jesus did the guy have Tourette’s? No one gets paid enough to take that kind of abuse.
Just some random asshole. It truly reveals more about him than it would about anyone he abuses. (I don’t think I SOUND fat on the phone). You just gotta laugh at the absurdity of it.
Oh jeez where do I even begin. I’ve always been fat I mean I’m over 250 less pounds fat than I use to be but I still get called names.
****
*****
Ugly
Whore
Fatass
Dumbass
Freak
Literally the list goes on forever. All my friends say I’m beautiful but they’re my friends when I look in the mirror I see a fat pos that no one will ever find beautiful plus I have scars all over cause I am an idiot who self harms. Over the summer I was at the pool and a group of teens mooed at me and told me to do everyone a favor and put some clothes on. It’s a part of life when you’re ugly or fat you just get use to it. I do my makeup everyday for what reason I don’t know.
Well you wanna know what i’ve been there i’ve starved myself been skinny ppl said i was to skinny so gained weight back ppl said i was too fat…i’ve lost weight been keeping the healthy..but you know what you never be good enough in some people’s eyes bc they’re not good enough in there own! So if you are called beautiful by your friends why don’t you just try and see it, act like it for a day! wake up look in the mirror and say damn i’m cute asf and i’m going to wear my favorite outfit and rock it…even with the littlest confidence you can do anything, just try it for one day see how you like it…and smile, smile the shit out your face!!! your cheeks will hurt like hell but at least when you’re 80 you can say you smiled so much one day you cheeks hurt <3
Thanks girl <3 I've learned People are cruel but the cruelest person of all is myself to myself. I try to look and see what others do, it's just super hard. When I do go out I do dress up take selfies for Snapchat and fb and insta I just always have that lil voice that speaks differently. It's weird when I was really fat I had more confidence in me than I do now. I don't understand it. I never can judge someone on their looks to me everyone is beautiful unless they're a mean hearted person, I look at the inside of people rather than the outside cause that's what counts.
wanted85 i feel you haha fr when i was fat i was more confident, post picks on fb a lot…but only bc i do make up and advertise it..im pretty happy about it..ive had 4 ppl ask me to do there wedding makeup so yay haha..and to make it so maybe just maybe someone will se me….its hard living up to expectations of the medias image of a women, but thats how i feel beauty is within i do very mush so agree with you on that!